he and i were talking and i told him i had a new bf who treated me well and wants me to have his children.....then his response was to make sure he's the type of person i can talk to and that i should wait for a year b4 i have a baby! then he said that i should make sure my present bf won't be the jealous type who only wants me to himself and i also noticed that my ex kept making sexual remarks like my nice booty and breasts... he acted as though it didn't bother him that i was planning to have a child with another man... why would he tell me to wait a year? whats his problem?
2007-03-28 07:48:56 · 7 answers · asked by nizo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He probably still likes you.If he keeps making sexual remarks,than that's a sign.He wouldn't be saying that if he didn't like you.And if he's telling you to wait a year b4 having a kid,I think he's jealous.He probably told u to make sure your bf isn't the jealous type because he wants u to think that if u and your ex still talk,he'll get jealous and leave.But yea jmaybe he does still care about u and just wants the best for u.
2007-03-28 07:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by Whitney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your ex is making a lot of sense.
Most marriages do not last seven years. If your courtship has been less than a year, you may be asking for trouble. Just because he treats you right in the beginning does not mean it will continue after the nuptials. Many abusive men start out as the sweetest guys you will ever meet.
Your ex may still care about you, even though its over. I suggest you take your time. The fact that you're talking to your ex about your current boyfriend is already a warning sign of trouble in paradise. Is your current BF your best friend? Do you feel as if you could talk to him about anything? How much time do you spend together in a week? How long have you been together?
These are all variables that will come into play.
Remember: The man you have a child with will be connected to you for the life of that child whether your relationship works out or not. Can you deal with that?
2007-03-28 08:13:16 · answer #2 · answered by SONG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...your ex likes having a little bit of control over you still hun....and seemingly I'm thinking he kinda sorta does to some degree too. You're listening and reflecting on his words...aren't you? Stop listening to anything he says babe. It's YOUR life not his to be responding to! Talk to your mom and dad about this so called controller that still wants to influence you and be a part of your life hun. He's got no business airing out anything to you honey. This is your moment to shine and take control of this stuff babe. Tell him to bug off with your business babe. It's not his business at all in the first place. Send him down the road of use to be babe. Cause he's only gonna cause you more difficulty if you don't. Are we cool on all of this ex stuff sweetie?
2007-03-28 08:03:34 · answer #3 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's your problem? Babies outside of marriage are a bad idea - it's selfish and irresponsible and only the child suffers from your poor choice.
Why do you talk to your ex? Not over it would be my guess. Your ex isn't the problem.
2007-03-28 07:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by Stefka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he's looking out for you b/c he cares about you still, or he's jealous and wants you to have doubts about your new man.
2007-03-28 07:53:16 · answer #5 · answered by NY Yanks Girrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
key word is EX why are u letting him tellu what to do with ur life
2007-03-28 07:52:28 · answer #6 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey duh he still wants you!! if your wonderin what to do with this think bout which one you would rather grow old with think wich one you want to have all those great memorys with
2007-03-28 07:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by Sara S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋