Ex-wife who is remarried & remarried husband begin calling each other after yrs of not talking?

Question

Ladies: How would you react or what would you do if your husband of 5 ys always appreciated your beauty, personality, intelligence-for being younger-all this compared 2 his ex. He always mentioned he's glad it did not work out w/ ex & how happy he was 2 have met & married you. Ex-husb &ex wife had son/daughter. They are in their late 20's. Ex husb never called ex in the past for any reason, Vice-Versa. Ex wife remarried (14 ys) now. There were marital problems in ex husb marriage. Ex-husb & current wife separate for a month & got back together. During the separation ex-husb & ex-wife were calling each other to discuss sons' legal problems. After ex-husb & current wife got back together, husb continued to call ex & calls became secret, frequent & longer. Husb would hide & talk 2 ex-wife. Current wife walks in on husb phone conversations, husb talks for about 1 min & then tells ex he has to go. Husb says theres nothing going on & promises not 2 hide his phone conversation, but does so.

Answer 1

If its a pr oven hiding behavior .... then there could be something building up there , some men tend to feel guilty of past stuff ,and even tend to try to fix it , but , the fix could cost a lot of ....pain if he does it alone, he could even go back get lost again , the matter is that if he wants to help someone including his ex , he should always include you because youre entitled to be shown that kind of respect because youre his wife , and youre a couple , even when in some matters you act only as acompanying support...and dont say a word still , thats called respect ans honor the wife , talk to him about it .

Answer 2

Could be possible.. What was the reason for the seperation.. Call the ex wife and ask what is the problem and that you don't want to cause a prob., but wish she would include you in your discussions about the child since the child is living in your household as well...

Answer 3

girl you lost me with all that ex not ex stuff.that is big problem for the current wife,she should confront him ,if there
something going on better to find out sooner rather than later,or may be there is somthing serious going on with the son and they dont want to share with the new wife,son do have the right of privacy,but she should sit down and talk to him and tell him how that makes her feel...............tell him if he need to talk to her in private about the son thats ok but as long as he dose not try to hide the phone call from her.......

Answer 4

Sounds like some sparks came back...If I were you I would talk to him and be honest about how you feel and what you are thinking. Then talk to the ex also.

Answer 5

Well, you knew he was previously married and had children when you were dating him, and you then chose to marry him. That first marriage and family is a real pull, so you just have to keep to yourself and let him handle things.

Answer 6

I think you got trouble.