There is this girl at my school, she pretty and everything but theres 1 problem, shes a physco!,she is crazy,hyper all the time,acting wierd,being loud, etc....she asked me out today and I really dont think shes the right type for me, not too be mean,how do I say no without hurting her?
2007-03-28 07:39:42 · 21 answers · asked by Matt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
either way a girl is going to be hurt when she is rejected ... just tell her the truth, but of course in a more cushioning way
2007-03-28 07:44:12 · answer #1 · answered by oldmansaggins4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if you go on one date with her,that wont hurt. Then after if you still feel she isn't your type then you should just tell her you want to be friends with her and that's all. Say she is a good person but say you don't have feelings for her in that way :) Be friendly.
2007-03-28 14:44:54 · answer #2 · answered by scoopie110 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
easy ok just say hey i though about it and i really dont like you like that. sorry just walk up when she is at her locker. say it in a sweet way and have a half smile. be for you go say your nice and cute but just not my type if you think i am wrong you are sad it works the best she will be ok with it and then she will not hold it agenst you and you two could end up as friends.
2007-03-28 14:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by Rose W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her you're gay...just kidding. I'd just say that you're not interested in dating right now and that you just want to spend your school years playing the field, having fun with friends. School is something to be experienced instead of getting wrapped up in the boyfriend-girlfriend things.
2007-03-28 14:44:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bang her like a screen door in a hurricane! Then if she starts getting attached, take a trip down the Hershey Highway -- she'll probably leave you alone after that.
2007-03-28 14:47:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be honest. I know that sounds really outdated but it works. Tell her you don't want to hurt her feelings but you don't think dating her is the right decision for you right now. She is young and she will heal.
2007-03-28 14:46:05 · answer #6 · answered by tracy.austin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you aren't ready to start a relationship with her. Trust me I'm a girl and I know!!! lol but just try that and see what she says! If she gets all sad tell her you are sorry!
2007-03-28 14:46:40 · answer #7 · answered by McKenzie- 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say, "Hey, i dont like you in that way so maybe we can just be friends" You want a girl who you like not a girl that has just looks.
2007-03-28 15:03:56 · answer #8 · answered by Brunettebabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i HAVE ALWAYS APPRECIATED HONESTY. IF IT WAS THAT SHE WAS UGLY I WOULD TELL YOU TO LIE TO HER. THATS JUST MEAN. BUT BEING YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED CUZ OF SOMETHING THAT SHE CAN WORK ON, I WOULD TELL HER. SHE PROBABLY IS JUST NERVOUS AND IS ACTING OUT. IF YOU CANT TELL HER IN PERSON, WRITE HER A LETTER. BE NICE AND TELL HER THAT SHE IS PRETTY BUT YOU CANT DATE SOMEONE THAT IS AS LOUD AS SHE IS AND YOU ARE TELLING HER SO THAT SHE WILL REALIZE. GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-03-28 14:47:58 · answer #9 · answered by chvygrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like someone else
I have a gf already
I'm not ready for relationship right now
I'm busy
2007-03-28 14:44:54 · answer #10 · answered by ceec 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋