I just found out that my love is expecting a baby from my step sister's friend. i fell like commiting suicide.
2007-03-28 07:38:34 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry to hear that but do your best not to think about it too much. He's moving on and it's best that you should too. Somethings just aren't meant to be. You'll find someone that is right for you.
2007-03-28 07:53:40 · answer #1 · answered by S. Marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, honey! Take a deep breath...I've had my heart broken really badly three different times, and each time I felt like I would never be a whole person again. Trust me when I say this, though (even though it may sound impossible with your hurt being so fresh), but it will get better. You will be able to love again and to be happy. I did, and I'm the happiest I've ever been!
If you truly feel suicidal right now, though, I would strongly suggest you talk to a professional. There is absolutely no shame in seeking help when you need it. They won't look down on you for the way you are feeling...no matter how you are feeling. You should look up a counselor in your area ASAP...your life isn't worth being lost over a guy who broke your heart!!!!
2007-03-28 07:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by Natty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it hurts right now but ending your life over it is not the answer. Time does heal all wounds even though at this moment it seems like the end of the world. Just take each day one day at a time and the sting of it will lessen. I am speaking from experience. My oldest daughter's father got me pregnant and a so called friend of mine pregnant at the same time. It was devastating but the pain did go away and I did find someone who loved me and treated me better than he ever did. So just keep a positive attitude like they say when god closes a door he always opens a window.
2007-03-28 07:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by greeneyedredhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you ever love again? Of course, time heals all wounds. It's not worth thinking about committing suicide, must seek immediate help if that re-enters your mind. Let the healing process began and move on theirs many fishes in the sea - but be careful with the one that you catch - use your head and not your heart - check him out!
2007-03-28 07:51:16 · answer #4 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to commit suicide over a guy who is expecting a baby from another woman? Makes no sense. Get on with your life and stop nursing a dead dog.
2007-03-28 07:44:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heart goes out to you. What you found out can make anyone feel horrible. Just know, all of us at one time or another have felt broken hearted, and it is not fun at all, in fact it is one of the most painful experiences in life. But you will one day get over it as impossible as it is to believe now. Your pain is fresh, and the thoughts of betrayal can be tormenting.Trust time in putting all the pieces of your broken heart back together. Reach out to people who care about you for love and support that you will need most at this time. I am afraid the journey of going through a broken heart is a road of pain you will have to take in order to cross to the road to happiness. I pray you begin to feel better.
2007-03-28 07:47:11 · answer #6 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop your nonsense! You WILL NOT commit suicide over some man! Yes, you may be heart broken but your wounds will heal with time. Consider yourself fortunate that you found out in time that your boyfriend is a jerk.
2007-03-28 07:42:58 · answer #7 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thinking of ending your life is not the answer you'll be dead family devastated and the baby will still come into this world regardless. a broken heart is very painful. it might be your first but it won't be your last. time is the ultimate healer. keep busy do things that please you, grow from the experience and move on stronger wiser and brand new. when you fall get up dust off and on to the next. life has so much to offer, but you got to be here to reap the benefits.
2007-03-28 07:51:42 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way...
What if you married him?
What if the both of you had kids?
What if he was the primary bread winner and you didn't have a job?
What if you never knew this was happening and it actually were?
Count your blessings and move on. He wasn't worth it. Just Thank God that you found out in time. Time heals all hurt, so just stay alive and you'll be glad you did in the end!
2007-03-28 07:50:00 · answer #9 · answered by clayborne112 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's tough, but you will get through it. Just because he's having a baby, doesn't mean you should kill yourself or give up. Trust me, you can love again. It's okay to be a bit upset, but don't let that cause you to give up. There is going to be someone to come along that will be able to offer you so much more than this guy. But until he comes, all you can really do is to just love yourself.
2007-03-28 07:48:53 · answer #10 · answered by Shandra S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
It hurts i know because i have been divorced twice. I have been single now for 11 years. I have dated a few women after my divorce but I cant get back to trusting someone again. It would take alot for me to be able to trust someone again. If i find her i know that i will spend the rest of my life with her. But i am in not hurry to find that. Having to much fun on my own. ps if you need someone to talk to my yahoo sn is Danielp1962
2007-03-28 08:04:08 · answer #11 · answered by danielp1962 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋