im always shy and i dont kno how to over come it can you help meh please
2007-03-28 07:35:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try to take in the mirror as if the mirror is a guy.You ll over come this fear.Try to make internet friends like guys and meet them or try talking to your brother or his friends whom your comfertable with:.,
2007-04-05 00:53:00 · answer #1 · answered by Hope Summer 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you blush? When I was shy I blushed like crazy. That made me feel more shy because I knew that If I put myself out there I would turn red - so I just kept to myself. My solution to that was being social while doing aerobic activies (climbing and jogging) and while in dark palces (lounges etc.)
I don't blush anymore - and I'm not shy anymore.
I guess what I'm saying is this - You gotta figure out the source of your introvertedness and conquer it. If you don't like the sound of your voice spend more time singing in the shower. If you you're afraid you'll say somehthing stupid, have a lot of conversations with 8year olds - they'll eat it up!! Don't try to change yourself to be accepted. Accept yourself and everyone else will love you! I promise!
Good luck!
2007-04-01 13:12:27 · answer #2 · answered by Holly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a lot of guy friends, but if I meet someone I really like, I'm still shy. But that doesn't mean that I don't talk to him or make jokes. Being shy isn't a bad thing, as long as it doesn't make you a mouse.
2007-04-05 05:19:51 · answer #3 · answered by lady_mask81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get with a guy that makes you feel comfortable and then like just talk to him and stuff and then make friends untill you get used to the guys and then you will feel less shy around them maybe you just dont hang out with guys enough but i would just get some guy friends and do some stuff with them and then it will just be like regular friends it wont be like they are guy friends
2007-03-28 07:40:47 · answer #4 · answered by tropical_sweety2587 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you first have to be confident and comfortable in your own skin. once you know and love yourself then you can be open and outgoing and not shy around anyone. and guys especially like a confident girl. take some time for yourself and find out what you like about yourself, what you think are your positives and flaunt them proudly. be confident, because someone will always like you and **** those who dont!
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good luck
2007-04-05 06:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can become "unshy" if that's your nature, but you can try to become more comfortable around guys by having male friends. If you're used to being around guys, even just friends, that might help bring you out of your shell when you're with a guy you like. Plus, maybe your male friends will hook you up with some of their friends!!
2007-03-28 07:39:50 · answer #6 · answered by crabbyone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-02-11 09:16:39 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to embarrass yourself a few times. Get that out of your system. Once you realize you can get past the awkward situations you will have more confidence. Shyness is caused because of a lack of confidence in yourself or comfort in your abilities.
2007-04-04 21:43:32 · answer #8 · answered by Rumin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm shy too but i guess i just got some guy friends and got out of the box... some guys are like when females are shy
2007-04-05 06:35:11 · answer #9 · answered by Pr!nc355 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to determine what you are afraid of specifically, then work on overcoming that. I used to be afraid of rejection if I asked a girl out, so I wouldn't ask any of them out. Eventually I decided that if I got rejected it wasn't so bad, I would at least know not to waste my time trying with that girl anymore, and then I could work on finding someone else who was interesting to ask out.
I'm married now to a girl that I wouldn't be married to if I hadn't asked her to have dinner with me.
Good luck to you,
~Kyle
2007-03-28 07:40:33 · answer #10 · answered by Kyleontheweb 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋