What makes me still like this guy that I know is not into me and treat me like crap behind my back?? Is it because I want something that I know I can't have?? How do I just get over him??
2007-03-28 07:35:19 · 2 answers · asked by Miss Understood 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...allot of people have this particular mental syndrome...me included...so understand that you are NOT alone in this kind of mental dilemma. It's really only gonna be a dilemma if you allow it to be though. You do have choices to make for yourself...just as this other person has their choices to make for themselves also. Understand we aren't going to always get what we want in life reasonably...this is just one of those significant moments in time unfortunately. Do also understand it's your job and intuition to turn this thing into a positive moment for yourself too. Staying busy and powerful within yourself and your own daily tasks should create an environment where you can stop missing the affections of this one single individual otherwise. Vent your frustration in positive experiences for yourself reasonably. Don't run out and find a new boyfriend to disguise the pain you feel internally right now. You'll just be dragging your old baggage into your new relationship seriously. I don't think the new people in your life would appreciate having to go through your grieving period honestly. Let thyself heal darling first. Stay busy with good stuff for you in the meantime. Sound cool?
2007-03-28 07:52:19 · answer #1 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you know you're a valuable person and you don't understand why this creep can't appreciate you and you want to prove it to him. If he's that kind of person don't waste your time. Stop obsessing (I know it's easier said than done). Go to new places, meet new people and find someone who does appreciate you.
2007-03-28 07:44:20 · answer #2 · answered by SomeGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋