so theres this girl i go to highschool with i used to hangout with her when she was goign out with my friend then they broke up nd we didnt hang out nd i started hanging out with her again but i think she likes someone else how do i get her to like me and what do i do when we ahng out to make her realize that i care about her
2007-03-28 07:35:14 · 16 answers · asked by mtvhitsking 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not about letting her know you care about her. Trust me it doesn't matter to a girl if you like her, or if you care about her, she's not going to feel the same way, just because you do. and vise versa, if a girl you didn't like cared about you, it wouldn't matter to you. It's about making her attracted to you. You have to display the traits girls find attractive, to make her like you. 2 most important traits, confidence and humor. On top of that, you should be strong, all this I have a crush and want her to like me, you may think it's sensitive, but it's also feminine. It's not masculine. Let girls worry about having crushes and guys not liking them. You need to adopt this attitude. "If it doesn't work out, I don't care. I'll meet a new girl." Remember, I'm trying to teach you how to attract women. Take my word on this, I've always had success with women, more than most guys could ever dream of. One more piece of advice, along the humor lines, tease her, bust on her a little, they love it. Good luck.
2007-03-28 07:47:01 · answer #1 · answered by joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is to be upfront with her & take a chance & tell her how you feel. Or do it the way a guy would, start flirting your *** off & get her to see you as a potential b/f not just a friend. But doing it that way you may loose her as a friend. Whatever you do don't just do nothing or she will find someone else. The time is now or never to make your move.
2007-04-05 00:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, i used to ask myself that same question, but in the end i found out that u cant make a girl like u if u want her to. lil by lil if u treat her right as a very good friend that she is, shel start to feel more comfortable around u and shel eventually get to the point where she will begin to realize that she likes u. when a girl likes u, therel be signs and theyre not that hard to notice. when u begin to notice the signs, take ur step forward and ask her out. before u know it, shel be urs. but it all depends on the type of girl that she is. it could take her from a week to a year. u never know. but listen to this: if u start gettin desperate and shes still the same way, i say that u look for another girl. yes, itl be hard but ul end up happy. i know from experience.
2007-04-04 20:35:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't work that way, buddy.
You can't make someone like you. The issue is, the more would would try, the less you'd achieve.
It's a fact of life and something we have to accept, that sometimes we like someone who doesn't return our feelings.
Nothing you can do about it, get over it, it's not meant to be and probably out there is someone waiting for you who is a much better match. It's all happening fpor a reason.
Good luck and take it easy.
2007-04-04 22:17:57 · answer #4 · answered by Eugene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really can't make someone like you. The best you can do is continue hanging out with her and be yourself. If she finds you attractive and becomes "available," you'll be in the perfect position to gain her interest. Treat her right, be a good friend, etc. and maybe one day she'll think of you as more than a friend. Good luck!
2007-03-28 07:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by crabbyone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO! Why the hell would you want to be with a girl that DOES NOT LIKE YOU??? Yeah, I want to get married to someone who is hot, and does not want anything to do with me. I'm sure there will be girls that would like to be with you, and you would not give them the time of day. Don't rush into any relationship, especially at your age. Hormones speak very loud when you're young, it's not until you get into your late 20's early 30' when common sense mature...
2007-04-05 05:37:30 · answer #6 · answered by fire1962 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you care that she has a great personality and that you would like to be the significant other in her life just be honest with her
2007-04-05 03:21:25 · answer #7 · answered by Angel eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all u can do is be with her alot. make her smile and laugh and always show her a great time. after a while she will just want to be with the one who makes her happy. makes sure that person is u
2007-04-04 19:22:16 · answer #8 · answered by shychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So easy,you can bring the subject in a conversation like :Hey I heard you like this guy is it true? If she say yes you can say :aw,when she asks you about why aw you say because you already stole my heart.Besides like its not like someone's in love.
2007-04-05 01:58:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her and show her that chu care about her.. flirt with her so she knos that you like her.. but first make sure that your homboi is ok wit it then go for it but if doesnt work out wit her try sumone else but be sure that youll stay friends
GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-04-05 07:28:11 · answer #10 · answered by iiSABEL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋