i ask cause i was brought up as a christian but i recently fell in love whit this girl. But she was brought up a Muslim not kind that wheres borkas but she from Iran and i love her a lot but i don't know what to do like if i should introduce her to family. Plus i told my friend about her and he started ma kin terrorist jokes so my thing is im wondering if i should introduce her to my family and friends . she a beutifull sweet and intelligent woman
2007-03-28 07:29:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love this woman, and you can see past the differences in religion to appreciate the beautiful, sweet, intelligent woman she is, than your friends and family can learn to do likewise.
You might want to prepare them before you introduce her, just so they don't make rude or hurtful comments in her presence, and they will understand your feelings are serious. Start out by telling them you are in love with this girl, you think she's wonderful, etc, and tell them you would like to introduce her to them, so all the important people in your life can get to know each other. Then warn them that she is Muslim, so you'd appreciate it if they refrained from any negative comments or stereotypes both in her presence, and in yours. Be ready to stand up for her and refute any rude jokes or prejudices.
Remind your friend that there are just as many Christian terrorists as Muslim terrorists, and that it's close-minded hatred that makes a terrorist who he is, not his religion.
2007-03-28 07:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have serious plans of marrying her, you'll have no choice but to do so. If she will soon be family also. My parents had to make that difficult choice when they married. Half Persian and Half Spaniard. I am sure there will always be terrorist jokes at first, they probably think you are not that serious yourself, but eventually they get use to you two and learn to respect you.
2007-03-28 15:03:16 · answer #2 · answered by Kane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, your family should love her just as you do...
2007-03-28 14:34:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea..if you really love her then..you shouldnt care..so yea you should and who ever that friend was they need to go screw them selfs..bc that is really racest
2007-03-28 14:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by lesley m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch your back dude , look out for her father and brothers
2007-03-28 14:36:29 · answer #5 · answered by jamietogood 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋