We have absolute true love. I love her soo much..and she loves me too. I get along with her family/friends and everyone. She is 19 and I am 20 we still plan on finishing college. We have 7 months ok ok 6 months and a half lol but it feels soo much more like 10 years. Everyone of our friends notices how were truly inlove. What do you think?
2007-03-28 07:14:41 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds fine to me. I would say get engaged any time you like, and set the date for after you are out of school, since it's not so far off. Should work out pretty well.
I got married at 21, while I was not in school, and I am 25 now, still married.
***Ah I misunderstood, you've been together that long, that's not the time until you get out of school. I can't say about getting married while in school, and I'm not sure how long you have until you are both done with it, but as far as getting engaged, I asked my wife to marry me when we were only together around that long, and it worked out great.
2007-03-28 07:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by Kyleontheweb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think honestly, you should still wait. It's great that the two of you are truly in love with each other! Still go ahead and finish college and all of that, I truly recommend waiting to a year or after to marry, I say that,because that way you can really see each other's true colors in different situations, and you can really see that the chemistry/compatibility is there =) which sounds like it is! I was literally rushed into an engagement after dating the person for five months, and I broke it off and when I realized he wanted an 'employee" not a partnership/wife.
2007-03-28 07:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and get engaged if you want, but don't get married. Have a nice long engagement while the two of you are in college. Do NOT attempt to live together. Invest in a good contraceptive.
If you are seriously going to be together the rest of your lives, another 4 years of not being married will be like nothing to you when you're 64. Get all set up, finish college, get jobs, buy a house, plan an out of this world wedding and get married.
But not until after college. Do it right, and you'll be so grateful. Rush into it and you're headed for trouble.
2007-03-28 07:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by robin0408 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no set time for how long you should wait before you get married/engaged, Probably why the divorce rate is so high.
Give the relationship 2-5 years, your both young and have lots of time for marriage. If you two are still together for 2-5 years then perhaps you should consider it.
However if you are not, you just like most of the people out there should hopefully understand that "true love" is very commonly confused with "lust".
2007-03-28 07:19:41 · answer #4 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww. that's so cute! lolz srry. but to the point. if u two feel that it wud be best to get married then go for it. but u have to think about the out comes. what if the marriage does end up being too soon and it gets in the way of ur educations. what does everyone else think of this? if u two loved each other that much, then both of u will wait till both of u are FOR SURE u want to get married. if ur having second thoughts, maybe its not a good idea to get married right away. u two are still young. live ur life to da fullest. u two should be engaged. cuz both of u know u two wana get married, engagements are just promisses that u two will in the future but are still waiting for the right time. enagements can be how ever long it takes for the decision to be final
2007-03-28 07:23:20 · answer #5 · answered by savannah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could you give her a promise ring and wait until you finish college to get engaged? Marriage brings a whole new set of problems to solve and that can take a lot of attention. It could take too much away from finishing college. You don't need that right now. If you really love each other, you can wait until you are ready to make a home for that love. In the meantime, please don't have unprotected sex. Babies need a lot of attention, too.
2007-03-28 07:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by Alicia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its much to early. Have you been able to see how she reacts under pressure. Have y'all been flat broke together. Have been through the worse together. What is your ideas of marriage. Do y'all share the same thoughts of marriage. Have you asked yourself those questions. Get to know them at least 3 years and if the two of you are meant to be don't be in such a rush. What is the rush for anyway. At the age people don't really know who they are. They make think that they have everything figured out. But take your time.
2007-03-28 07:21:43 · answer #7 · answered by Ms.Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a couple that were together for 7 months, got married, and have been married for 15 years have a family and are happy. It's works for some people. I met my husband in July of last year and we got married in Jan 07. It's been a ride but I love him and he loves me.
2007-03-28 07:21:09 · answer #8 · answered by fiveninebaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you two are in love, but I wouldn't get engaged for a while, and if you do plan the wedding for after college to give two time to make sure it's right.
2007-03-28 07:21:27 · answer #9 · answered by Lys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you live together for 6 mos - 1 year. That will tell you if you will make it or not.
No one can tell you if you're in love or not. Anyone who tells you "it's lust not love" shouldn't be spreading their opinions because they obviously feel the need to control somene they don't knows life or have their own fears/issues they feel they need to infect the world with.
No one can tell you when a good time to get married is.
2007-03-28 07:19:11 · answer #10 · answered by caladbolg_80 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋