well i dont know your girlfriend and the type of person she is. but my boyfriend had this problem with me in the beginning of our relationship. he would take me to restaurants, order food for me, and told me to eat it. and i did, because i felt bad for him ordering me food. i was stubborn. i am glad what he did, because i have changed so much. try eating at places that have variety or lunch buffet or something, that way, she can try new things, or try your meal, and she may like it. thats how i started liking a lot of things...eating off of my bf's plate :D tell her that she doesnt know whats out there unless she tries it. say 'i would really like it if we did this'. or maybe next time she offers to do something or go somewhere to eat ...say 'i don't like that place, i won't eat' or 'i dont wanna go there' let her feel how you feel...yea its probably not the right thing, but do it. overall...just tell her how you feel! if there was one thing i learned in relationships, its COMMUNICATION IS KEY! make sure she understands how she is feeling so hopefully she can change.
good luck.
2007-03-28 07:20:29
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answered by Anonymous
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The next time she says a movie you pick is dumb or a place you want to go is somewhere she doesn't like, point out to her, very gently, that you went and saw that stupid movie she liked, and you didn't say anything about it because you knew it was important to her, even though it wasn't your thing, and you hope that she would extend the same sort of courtesy to you.
Relationships are about compromise. Sometimes you just have to do stuff you don't really want to do because it is important to the other person. If she's not willing to do that, you're not going to have much of a relationship.
2007-03-28 07:18:12
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answered by mikah_smiles 7
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If u continue the way u been going ur going to look like the woman n this pic. bro. she has give n what u like man cuz how is it a relationship.Relationships envolves 2people and the things that the to people like ur not going to have everything in common but yall should b enjoying things together, stuff she likes,stuff u like,and very most important things that yall both like.If yall don't have anything in common meaning tha if u like the stuff she likes and she dosen't eeven think that what u like is even worth anything bro. maybe u should take a rael good look at ur relationship maybe it anit what u think it is, sounds like she dosen't what she want's and ur just there 2 keep her company.I don't go 4 that Sh*t with my girl and wont if she don't like it oh F#cking well and the same with me but we do most things together and we like the same stuff.Find someone that can and will be interrested n the things u do and like just as u do them,Keep ur head up u and that person thats 4u will cross paths.But ol girl u wit rite now she seems she would be better off somewhere elsse wit some1 else, thats my opinon.
2007-03-28 07:31:55
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answered by ? 1
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Honesty is good for all relationships. Talk to her. Let her know how it bothers you that she never does anything that you like that it is always what she wants. Let her know you dont mind too much but would like to do some things that you like and you want to do them with her. Let her know that you will do them with friends instead if she doesnt want to do them. Also, let her know if this will cause problems with the relationship if she isnt willing to compromise once in a while (if that is true)
2007-03-28 07:19:55
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answered by moo shell 3
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She shouldn't be so selfish. A relationship involves two people. Both people have ups and downs and both have sacrifices at one point or another. She seems she doesn't want to budge and the relationship is about "her". I would suggest that you date someone that treats you well and respects the things you like even though at some points she doesn't like them herself. She should do something for "you" because she knows you like it and it's going to make you happy. This doesn't seem to be a happy relationship.
2007-03-28 07:20:23
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answered by Rose 3
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Well, it looks like you are making some sacrifices for her, maybe she should for you. Talk to her about doing things you want to do. If she really likes you for you, she will be willing to go out and do them. Me and my fiance had that problem, to fix it, have her take a chance and go out. If not, than the relationship wont work. Its that simple
2007-03-28 07:18:30
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answered by morr007 1
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She's the type of ***** I hate. You're good enough to do everything she wants to do yet she can't return the favor. Jeez!
You should find someone who respects you and will take your feelings in consideration. You should be in an equally giving relationship not a one person get all relationship. Good luck!
2007-03-28 07:20:56
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answered by Anonymous
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honey, unless you really love this girl...its time for you to find a better girlfriend. try to find someone who will enjoy what you like to do and take you to places she wants to go equally. This girl can't always have her way. If you do love her, then try talking to her about this and hopefully she'll understand and be more lenient with where you two go. Good luck! =]
2007-03-28 07:20:22
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answered by Anonymous
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definitely i could say she IS taking a step decrease back emotionally from the relationship. what variety of self help books is she analyzing? She must be unhappy (no longer with you yet with life normally) and is spending this time to concentration on herself which potential she has to concentration on you much less. i could extremely refer to her approximately all this and how she is feeling. She ought to easily ought to discern issues out and night is often while a great number of people do this. She would not seem to rather be pulling faraway from you too plenty. She remains speaking to you, putting out with you, and snoozing with you so do no longer think of too a great number of this. you ought to ask her approximately this and what all she is coping with and questioning approximately. for sure something is bothering her if she has self help books. yet merely be there for her and supportive and with any luck she would be able to finally want you snoozing in her mattress returned.
2017-01-05 08:32:14
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answered by ? 3
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You can't and shouldn't force her to do anything.
You either want her for what she is, or move on. Those are your only choices. Seeing how she doesn't like many of the things you do, it would make sense to find someone who does.
2007-03-28 07:17:29
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answered by Just a friend. 6
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