I have this sort of problem that is bugging me.It is like this if my friend says i don't like milk it is disgusting i begin to hate milk it is not much in me but it is a bit I would like a solution pls pls ? of how to gett rid of this thing and strat making my own descions????????
2007-03-28 07:10:31 · 8 answers · asked by marylovefaires 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
maybe you have low sef esteem? Like do you think that your friend knows better than you, or that you should be more like your friend?
Everyone is influenced by friends and family a bit, but if its so bad it bothers you, all you need to do is make a conscious effort to do what you want to do. Try deciding wat u want on ur own. That way you kno wat u like.
Say 2 ursef "I liked milk before, so i still like it." and drink a big glass.
2007-03-28 08:38:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mirror neurons, power of suggestion, a need to "fit in", any number of things could explain why this is happening. You need to really think about what is causing this and then talk to someone you can trust about it, or just think through it yourself. If you find out why you're behaving this way you can try to change it.
In the milk example, you could try to continue drinking milk and telling yourself milk is good, that may produce a change.
2007-03-28 14:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by t3h w17chd0ct0r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are your own fabulous person and you can make your decisions and say whatever you want even if it is not the same as your friend opinion. Besides if we all had the same opinions the world would be sooooooooooooooo boring!
2007-03-28 14:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by Born awesome! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i once had that same promblem but it waz just cuzz i wanted to be like that person. what i did waz started to change up on my opinions a little bit at a time and after a while i did not even notice that i started being more outspoken and everthing
2007-03-28 14:27:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps learning to write correct English would help.
Anyways, you just have to be strong about your opinions and don't let other people sway you.
2007-03-28 14:17:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just make up your mind before you listen to anyone else's opinion and then stick to it.
2007-03-28 14:14:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sense of humor and reply, " I liked and I am ready to die for it!"
2007-03-28 14:19:36 · answer #7 · answered by Jorge T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
decide what you like first and when the person says i dont like that say well i do
2007-03-28 14:42:56 · answer #8 · answered by i love you <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋