There is this girl i have been going out with but, she was caught with another boy doing the dirty deed.........Should I go or should I stay or give her another chance? I really love her!
2007-03-28 06:59:35 · 34 answers · asked by mainman101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go far, far away, and don't ever take her back. It will just happen again and surely you don't want to be hurt or humiliated like that again, right?
2007-03-28 07:02:30 · answer #1 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't mind seeing your girlfriend doing the dirty deed with others, then forgive her (since you love her), and each time she does the dirty deed, give her another chance. If you on the other hand, are not the type of person that forgives a girlfriend who did the dirty deed with another man (and in all probability will repeat it), then dump her immediately, pronto, the soonest, and to hell with love.
2007-03-28 07:11:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u can forgive her for doing that then give her another chance. if its not the first time that that has happened and u think that something like that will happen again, then break up with her. if she loved u the way u love her, then u wouldnt even think about doind any thing with another guy. if u trust her not to do any thing like that again, then stay with her and talk to her about it, but if u feel that she might do aomthing like that again, and u don't trust her at all, then there's no point in the relationship. for some one who loves u, she sure doesnt act like it. u should be recieving the same love u give to a person if not more at least.
2007-03-28 07:09:40 · answer #3 · answered by savannah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will always be in your mind and things wont be the same. Let her go, it isn't very hard to find another girl. It's great that you really love her, but there has to be 2 people in the relationship, both have to love. Find you another girl. If the do it once they'll do it again.
2007-03-28 07:05:11 · answer #4 · answered by Russell W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump, she cheated on you. And didnt even come clean, she had to be "caught". Which means, she obviously wasnt feeling guilt about it before, and I would only assume she can fall into the same habbits again.
Let her go, if you love her and its ment to work out then she needs some time to reflect on what she did, and try to get you back. If her crimes go unpunished she will just do it again.
2007-03-28 07:03:09 · answer #5 · answered by Zenthae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta let go. what she did was file. She cheated she don't deserve another chance. She knew before hand that she could risk her relationship and had no regards to trying to keep a clean slate with you. She made the decision to mess up a relationship, not you. The relationship is already over. It was over when she pulled/ or he pulled down her panties.
2007-03-28 07:15:03 · answer #6 · answered by Ms.Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can stay if you want to that is your business, but look out she'll do the dirty deed when she wants to and you will live in a living hell.
2007-03-28 07:03:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her. Seriously. It is sometimes possible to save a strong marriage of many years after an affair. It's totally not worth it to save a dating relationship that's not even that serious after cheating.
She's not ready, she doesn't want you to be the one, and she certainly does not love and respect you. Move on, my boy! There are MILLIONS of girls out there pouting because there are no "good guys" left. Go find one of them and make her dreams come true.
2007-03-28 07:03:20 · answer #8 · answered by robin0408 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her and dont mind her doing it again then by all means give her another chance. If you love her and don't want to ask this question again then have some self repect and get rid of the slut.
2007-03-28 07:03:48 · answer #9 · answered by letthepartybeginnow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her immediately.
I have been in your situation before, and I chose to salvage the relationship. I regret that decision to this day.
Staying with a cheater just gives them more confidence that they will get away with it the next time.
2007-03-28 07:21:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anthony Stark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly if you want to stay with her go for it but you're the one that's going get hurt in the end. I don't believe she'll get hurt because if she cheated on you she doesn't have strong feelings for you. I believe in ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER! But it's up to you if you want to stick around. My advise would be to dump her and move on to someone who will appreciate your affection.
2007-03-28 07:08:10 · answer #11 · answered by aquarius2389 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋