I was in the final days of pregnancy & waiting to give birth. When my live-in b/f(of5 yrs.) decided to go to a friends house we went together. They were drinking aliitle bit out side. We had only been there about 30 min. when I went out side to find him so we could go home (cause of contractions)Well he was gone. & him or his friend didnt answer their cell. 3 hrs. passed so we(the other girl) decided to go look for them. we ended up passsing an officer that had a car pulled over & it was them with 2 underaged girls in the car. My guy was takento jail on a warrent & he didnt know I was there with the 2 chics. Well after he tried to lie about the whole thing. Said I didnt see nothing I was making it up, then decided to confess told me it was everything but, sex.Thing is when he got home he locked himself in the Bathroom took a shower & soaked his boxers in the sink. I know in my heart that he did the dirty but, whats ya'lls thoughts? Dump him or give it a chance? 5 years & a baby girl?
2007-03-28 06:58:37 · 7 answers · asked by Fee-Fee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When he got home it was just a few hours after the was arrested. & all the confessions was the same night.
2007-03-28 07:01:26 · update #1
wow this is a tough situation.... is he even sorry for what he did??? if not i would suggest u move on... and leave him... thats pretty nasty what he did, even if it wasn't sex... but sounds like he did have sex w/ em...
2007-03-28 07:03:22 · answer #1 · answered by chi_twnchica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus Christ!! And I thought I had problems.... He knew damn well what he was doing. He was just trying to fool you. I would leave his *** and put him on Child Support!! And make sure he doesn't have one of his sleezes around ur baby. If this were me, I would be sitting in jail right now, and my boyfriend would be chillin in a freezer at the morgue. I don't cry or get mad, i get even. I will shoot first and ask questions later ( that is if I don't kill him.) :) My bf and I have been together for about a year now, but he knows not to cross me. I have shot at him for pissing me off. He's been scared ever since. Take my advice, u got to get dirty and gritty with dude. Show him u are not playing with him. Attempt to shoot his nuts off and see how fast he changes.
2007-03-28 14:09:15 · answer #2 · answered by sassyfox2007 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
o man that is horrible, im so sorry he did that to you especially with a baby days away...this is a tuff situation you have a baby togther but what he did is probibly the lowest thing ive ever herd...you have to make up your mind, if he is cheating while your about to give birth i dont know if he even diserves you...i would say make him sleep on the couch and definitly dont think about marrige with this guy, let him be in the babies life but i would seriously consider not being a couple anymore, he didnt just have sex with another girl while you were pregnat she was underaged thats just disgusting...good luck with everything and congrats on the baby
2007-03-28 14:06:20 · answer #3 · answered by Lovley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant say better ask those underage girls
coz 2 everything there r 3 sides: ur side, his side nd the right one
2007-03-28 14:18:32 · answer #4 · answered by Rockd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that question. If you do decide to stay with him please make sure that he takes a STD and HIV test before your able to have intercourse again. Good luck. Congrulations on you baby girl.
2007-03-28 14:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by shay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that he did "get dirty" out there. What you have to ask now is: Will it happen again? and "Is this man truly the man you want to get old with?
Congrats on your Princess.
2007-03-28 14:05:27 · answer #6 · answered by Viaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh sounds bad to me, I would guess that he did cheat and it's up to you on if you can forgive him and trust him again, Personally I would say once a cheater always a cheater and loose him but it's your decision
2007-03-28 14:04:35 · answer #7 · answered by cowgrl3611 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋