i have been stupid, how do i solidify my fiancees trust in me?

Question

so the situation is that i answered some questions on here as if i were say, 'single' like if a girl was asking how to loose wieght i would end the advice with, 'call me' or some stupid flirty thing like that...or if someone asked a question about guys fidelity i said that 'men can cheat and go back home and kiss their wife like nothing happened' and when my fiancee logged on to my email she saw all this stuff... BUT the reality is that I have never cheated on my fiancee, she is simply one of the most unique people, beautiful from the inside out, fair and kind...how do i right this situation, make her understand that i am a truly stand up guy, that wouldnt cheat, not because i physically couldnt do that, but because what we have together is the most valuable thing that has ever come into my life...

Answer 1

try watching what you say or type to others for one. The Bible says"to think in your heart you have already done it" So it's easy to see why she would think that you have or would. When a person thinks about it they say things or do things. The old additive is actions speak louder than words. Try showing her from this point on with words, actions, and deeds. I was told by a wise couple love making starts early in the morning and continues the rest of the day. They meant if you will make breakfast in love, do things for each other the rest of the day, at night the sweetest joy comes from the sacrifice of the day.I hope this will help you restore your relationship. They best way to gain trust is by proving it, for the rest of your life.

Answer 2

Just let her know when you are answering questions, you are trying to get points, and just being someone else, not who you really are. That's really what most people do on the internet. I mean, I would question my husband as well if I saw of those answers from him, but you actually do have to play the game if you want to get "best answer" and build up your points. Just ask her if she wants to sit down with you sometime and answer some questions. Maybe she will understand more.

Answer 3

in mind in deed. Sorry dude no amout of quick fixes you can come up will repair this one. and you're not "a stand up guy" or you would have answered as one , not the jerk she sees you as now. Go back to square one, telling her wont work, she has to see you re-become that guy she fell in love with. If you're just an incurable flirt, might as well give it up now. keep your eyes on her, not the waitress, make her feel that she is not only the brightest star in your sky but the Sun. good luck and I hope you like crow, if not you will soon enough aquire a taste for it.

Answer 4

Tell her what you told us..

Cheating doesn't have to be physical, and I think that's what bothers her the most..

and from now on when you answer, leave out the CALL ME..and any other stupid "flirty things" .. save the flirty for HER!

:)

Answer 5

WHY IN THE HELL ARE YOU TRYING TO "SOLIDIFY" YOUR FIANCEES TRUST IN YOU WHEN SHE'S THE ONE CHECKING YOUR E-MAILS???

I THINK THAT THE MAJORITY OF PEOPLE ON HERE ARE GUILTY OF HARMLESS STUPID FLIRTY STUFF LIKE YOU SAID. IT'S HARMLESS FOR GOD'S SAKE. IT'S ALL IN FUN. I MEAN, UNLESS YOU'RE FIXING TO START HUMPING THE COMPUTER OR SOMETHING, THEN I DON'T SEE THE PROBLEM....

BUT I DO SEE A PROBLEM WITH HER CHECKING YOUR EMAILS. IT'S NONE OF HER BUSINESS WHAT'S ON THERE ANY MORE THAN IT'S YOU'RE BUSINESS WHAT'S ON HERS. SOUNDS TO ME LIKE SHE'S THE ONE WITH ISSUES.

Answer 6

I think telling her ALL the stuff you posted in your question would help a lot!

Answer 7

Tell her you a looking for another girl for her. that way you arent cheating

Answer 8

Do you think she is really gonna fall for this?You know what I mean.