Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 3 months now and for some reasons he just keeps puting he hands on me and i keep telling him to quit but he don't listen and it is making really nervous when i am around him and i don't know what to do plz tell me what u think.
2007-03-28 06:38:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it makes you uncomfortable then no, it is not normal, and if he does not listen to you that is even worse. Sometimes you just don't want to be touched. Some people like a lot and some don't that is what makes everyone different. This is not something to be ashamed of or anything. Just sit him down and tell him that it makes you uncomfortable and that it isn't that you don't like him you just are not a very touchy feely kind of person. If he gets mad then maybe he isn't for you
GOOD LUCK : )
2007-03-28 06:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by sxyhzleydgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell how you feel!!! That u are not comfortable with his ocupus hands...and if you are not ready for something else and he insist then move on look for someone else that is not interested only in sex.... Do it rigth know that you are verly starting a relationship ad if you are not comfortable around him BE HONEST and speak out !!!!good luck
2007-03-28 13:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl you need to get away from him. He's already doing things like that you never know what else he will do if he has the chance. The worst relationships I know of start out with things that they thought were innocent. Then it kept getting worst and worst until they were too deep and scared to just get out with out really having to go thru something big. Don't put yourself thru it get out while its safe and you still can.
2007-03-28 13:44:35 · answer #3 · answered by TeeT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not go out with Mr. Octopus anymore! Things could get dangerous. Tell him that he obviously doesn't respect you or your wishes and you deserve better than that.
Good luck! :)
2007-03-28 13:42:06 · answer #4 · answered by searching_please 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for him. But (and I am sure that I am not the first to answer this way) if it makes you uncomfortable and he wont stop you need to get away from him permanently.
2007-03-28 13:42:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be just after you to use you for sex. If he won't listen when you tell him no, find someone else who will respect you.
2007-03-28 13:42:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you tell them no and they don't respect that its a sign of things to come. DUMP HIM NOW.
2007-03-28 13:42:30 · answer #7 · answered by letthepartybeginnow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he doesn't respect what u tell him then why are u still with him??? Just be careful!!!
Good Luck!!
2007-03-28 13:42:57 · answer #8 · answered by J[o]a[N]n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is looking for sex. Since you don;t know what he is doing you are too young. And since he won't stop you have to break up with him./
2007-03-28 13:42:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he doesn't respect you it's over.
2007-03-28 13:41:33 · answer #10 · answered by __ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋