My boyfriend now(Brad) was my HS sweetheart, we broke up first year of college due to long distance. He has some trust issues with me an I think they are pretty ridiculous. When we started hanging out again (I am now 24, we were together when I was 17-19) a few months ago, I was seeing another guy (Mike). Brad knew that, and besides we were just hanging out, catching up as friends. Well we eventually got serious again but still weren't together yet. I had one last rendezvous with the other guy, whihc made me realize I def. want to be with Brad for sure, so I ended things with Mike to be with him. Brad eventually found out I still had a thing with Mike and tried to break up with me. He says he cant trust me. Because even tho we werent "together" yet, "words were said". He couldve still been seeing other girls, I just wouldnt wanna know about it. Anyway up to now, 3 months into our relationship, he still has a trust issue with me. But I didnt cheat on him!! Its just not fair!
2007-03-28 06:38:03 · 7 answers · asked by Jukebox 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You guys should stop living in the past and live for now.
If you are happy together, and enjoy eachothers company then thats all that matters. Love is hard to find. I guess he doesnt want to get hurt. I just hope he's not crazy.
Good luck.
2007-03-28 06:45:40 · answer #1 · answered by MARSIN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were seeing two guys at the same time romantically, yes you did cheat.
I wouldn't trust you either, he should move on and find a good women.
2007-03-28 13:43:08 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell brad to trust u. i mean he shouldnt not trust u if u and him were apart when u met mike. if he doesnt understand your feelings then kick him to the curb honey!
2007-03-28 13:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by brandi_pamplin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like neither one of you have matured enough yet.. How would you react if the situation was reversed???
2007-03-28 13:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by Its me!!! :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might always be and issue with him. Either accept it and talk about it with him or move on.
2007-03-28 13:43:06 · answer #5 · answered by Babe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soo... what's the question?
2007-03-28 13:41:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If the question is did you mess up by breaking up with Mike, the answer is .............DUH!
2007-03-28 13:42:44 · answer #7 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋