To Sum up in a nutshell This guy that i've known for some months now leaves in a different state then me, we both admit our feelings for each other. Anywayz he told me that the distantce is what is standing in our way at this time. Well My cousin leaves in the same city as him and I'm very tired of where I currently reside, So in about a couple of years I wanted to move where he is. I asked him how he felt about that. He's reaction was not to rearrange my life, and well he have other interests too. When it comes down to it, he's been talking to this one female before me and him start talking. But the suppose difference is, he has feelings for me but he still wants to see what happens with this other female. I'm just now hearing about this chick. I'm told him good luck wit him and that gurl and hung up on him. He's already lied before if you check out my last question, And I'm tired. I'm hurt and I can't stop crying and thinking about him, Do you agree that i did the right thing?
2007-03-28 06:36:57 · 7 answers · asked by kizzykay86 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol I just realized that my spelling was not the greatist when I typed my question, I apologize for that I'm sure can tell how frustrated I am;(
2007-03-28 06:38:36 · update #1
I think you did the right thing, from a guys point of view and form people and friends I've seen if he lied and wants to know what possibilities he had with her then forget it, he lied so you never know this migth be a lie too mayeb there's more that you do not know of, guys can be secretive so it might be only him with the real dirt. If he said that he wanted to see how things would work out with her than he's definatly unsure if he really did truly like you then why on earth would he be experimenting? seriously... I'd never do that if I knew I truly had feelings for someone!
but then again it's all up to you I caqnnot decide for you I have no idea what he's like, I'm not hima nd not all guys are the same.
my advice is to ignore him as you started and if he really want to try he's gonna have to try harder and don't give in to easy if he tries to contacty ou that will seem to easy to get try and make him fight for you...
2007-03-28 06:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u did the right thing. he did u a favor by telling u not to move there to be with him. because this would have just been a total mess if it was years later and u actually did move. its hard to get over someone u developed feelings for (im going through it now) and they crying wont stop till u realize everything happens for a reason and this is for the better. i still burst out and cry throughout the day. i've had my heart broken so many times but u know u eventually get over it. find something to do to take ur mind off him for a while and if ur having trouble sleeping at night take a shot of something.
-time will heal ur heart- just dont build a wall around it :-)
2007-03-28 13:48:02 · answer #2 · answered by Ma Baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You def. did the right thing. Maybe you shouldn't have hung up on him if you still want him back in your life but he def. deserved the hang up. Pursue other people now and when you do move out with your cousin, see where you are and see where he is... if you both are single, then you can try the relationship again. good luck =]
2007-03-28 13:41:28 · answer #3 · answered by Julie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on
2007-03-28 13:40:48 · answer #4 · answered by __ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing he is not the kinda man a woman needs.
2007-03-28 13:41:11 · answer #5 · answered by sweetladytease 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree
2007-03-28 13:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spell check please!! Don't move for him move only for yourself.
2007-03-28 13:47:32 · answer #7 · answered by sweet p 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋