Ok my friends ex-boyfriend is starting to talk to me out of no where....i got freaked out at first but then i realized that i wasen't bad cause we were just talking....but then i found out that he likes me and wants to ask me out....i am confused caues me friend is going @ with my ex....is it bad for me to give him a chance????
Help please!!!
2007-03-28 06:36:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your friend is going out with your ex, then I would think that it is only fair that she allow you to go out with hers. Its my firm opinion that friends are more important than a boyfriend, as we guys can really mess things up for a girl. Yes you heard me right. lol! Anyway, don't let a goodlooking guy ruin your friendship. Ask your friend if it would upset her, and remind her that she is going with your ex. If she is a good friend, I'm sure it will turn out just fine.
2007-03-28 06:42:45 · answer #1 · answered by benjamin c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a situation on whether or not you are going after him to get back at your friends or not. If you two are really liking one another and since your ex and your friend have already broken the friendship code of not going out with one another's exes, then maybe you can, but the real question is why would you want to go out with him? Wouldn't it be better to have him as a friend and to find someone who is not in your circle so that it won't seem like you two are swapping boyfriends?
2007-03-28 06:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude if she was the first to break the cardinal rule of never dating your friends ex, then all fair in love and war!! Give him a chance, may be fun!
2007-03-28 06:39:58 · answer #3 · answered by TootsieGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's doing it...it means it's ok. BUT don't just do it to get back at her. Go out with him cuz you want to, if you want to. Personally, I wouldn't do it. See, we girls usually don't have that "bro's before ho's" mentally and we just take it out on each other so I would talk to her first and let her know how you feel. If she's cool wit it and your cool wit it...hey...here come the double dates right?!
2007-03-28 06:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by batchick5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you girls have the same taste in men. One big happy family. If she had no problem going out with your ex then what are you worried about going out with hers? Just think, later you girls can compare notes.
2007-03-28 06:40:54 · answer #5 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Under no circumstances is it ok to break the girl code.
2007-03-28 06:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only bad if you want to stay friends with your friend. If not, go for it.
2007-03-28 06:39:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no going out with him would be a B**** thing to do , thing about your friendship before relationship. It would be a hoe move
2007-03-28 06:42:51 · answer #8 · answered by faygo_foamy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone...unless you want your friend to become an x as well... have some class
2007-03-28 06:39:02 · answer #9 · answered by momof3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is bad taste, no class
he is sloppy seconds, leave it alone!
2007-03-28 06:42:28 · answer #10 · answered by okiedokey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋