Why is it okay or cool for guys to sleep with a bunch of women but...?

Question

when a chick does it she gets looked at like a whore or slut? Shouldn't we have the right to do that without people being so judgemental...?

Answer 1

idk bout all that but it is annoying 4 guys to call a female a hoe if she sleeps w/ a couple of ppl but he can be gettin it every nite and izn't considered a hoe...i think that he should be judged the same way...

Answer 2

That is a question that really gets me thinkin, although i havent been called that name before but, in another woman's case, like even in the new movies where all cursing exists, it is being utilized alot those words like whore, btch, h*, but men do the same, they sleep with many women, like women sleep with many man, a man can cheat on his woman, vice versa, a woman can cheat on her man. I dont think that there should be a name for these personalities or actions...It is the people who started to judge it, the human beings created this judgementality among the women, mostly men I think, It's just slang created by human beings, those words never really did existed during Christ's time, it was the new world, and the new people of now in the future who begun this critizement. Don't worry about it, for a say, women can say that men are a***holes for doing the same as them. There can be words for men too. but it shouldn't matter, because just because you call a person a certain name it doesnt necessarily indicate that its their inner personalities. Its just casualties of life.


By the way for the people, whether its men or women, you should never judgement on actions of others, its' the body's hormones not the person.lol

Answer 3

As a woman, I don't think it's cool when a guy does it either. A man doesn't want a whore, well neither does a woman. The sexes might change, but the meaning of the word doesn't. It is possible to be a man and a whore or a sl*t too.

Post Script:
The key to sexual behavior should always be discretion when you are a woman. Everything depends on how you carry yourself and how you conduct yourself in public. What you do behind closed doors is your own private business.

Answer 4

Unfortunately, the double standard still exists to some extent. But people are starting to realize that it's really not too cool for a man to sleep with a bunch of women either. The best way to get around this is by keeping your sex life very private.
Safety and discretion are very important. Neither you or your partner should kiss and tell. If one doesn't tell, then others won't know. Even if people suspect, or ask, tell them that it's not something you choose to discuss, and that it's really none of their business.

Answer 5

It's biology. If a guy spreads his seed around by sleeping with 20 women, assuming they aren't whores, he may have 20 children but they would be his and of course, the mother's. But if a girl has 20 guys sleep with her in a month (or even a week - I had a roommate who did that, I think), she will have a baby and it will be hers and who knows whose. Lineage still means something in society. It means something when the child grows up. It even has some meaning in a court of law. And the kid who can honestly say,' I have no idea who my father is and I can never know' is a kid who hurts.

Answer 6

In my opinion it is okay for both sexes to do what ever they feel like, as long as they are fancy free and don't cheat on anyone.

Personally, I prefer expereinced women and find it boring and not atrative to sleep with someone you has no or little expereicne and through this can't have great sex.

To be judgemental is wrong and stupid in any case in in every context. Nobody has the right to judge on others.

Answer 7

It's not okay thats the old way of thinking but nowadays men are being depicted as what they really are slut buckets, hoes and just flat out dogs and if they want to change that image they have to work to prove me wrong & if they don't think I'm worth the work... then fu*k them!

Answer 8

Sex is the most beautiful feeling, GOD created for ultimate "Nirvana". Man or Woman who woos a man always should consider sex as ultimate tool of achieve "Nirvana". Its not GOOD or BAD its Great and as great as HIM. Its the source of inspiration and aspirations.
Anyone either man or a woman who uses sex for lust is like an ignorant animal. (Even most of the animals do not do orgy.) He or She who indulges in group sex is a he-whore or a she-whore and just a downtroden animal.

Answer 9

well to be honest i think tht the reason men think we women are skanks if we have to much sex is because they are jealous tht we are a much more attractive bunch then they are and it bugs them tht they cant get what we can. But hopefully one day men will get there heads out of the sand and realize tht women are equal if not more powerful then men in this world and it will come back and bite them in the ***.

Answer 10

Because they are a bunch of stupid guys without a brain.But as a tip never reveal your sexual life to anyone,that's the first women rule ok.

Answer 11

Actually to my opinion,....men get burned out too. If you really think about it when you are interested in a guy and then you hear he sleeps with with a lot of girls you think....NASTY what if he has something! So it's basically the same thing.By the way women should do as the please........like i say,.. its nobodies business who i sleep with..........its my as* I ain't asking them for theirs!!!!!! ja ja :-)