iv been seeing this guy for 2 months i think we should only see each other 2 days a week he thinks we should at least 4 days a week but i dont want us getting bored with each other or stuck in a rut.
2007-03-28 06:22:46 · 31 answers · asked by SHY1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then think of it this way...if you see each other twice as much, it will be sooner that you know if you are really meant for each other, or not! If you are, you shouldn't get bored with each other!
2007-03-28 06:27:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,it's all a matter of the type of person that you are. If you get stuck in a rut, that's a matter of faliure on your part. I see my boyfriend about 3 to 4 days a week, and no matter how many times I see him it never feels like enough. If you think two days are ok to see a person that you suppossibly love, then that relationship is not for you in the first place. if it works it works, if not oh well just move on and find someone else, it's not the end of the world.
2007-03-28 13:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by Gabriella R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say 2 days a week is ok, but when you have that time away from one another you start to get nervous that they may be seeing someone else. It's perfectly natural for two people who first fall in love to be with eachother as much as possible. I just don't know. It depends on how jealous you both are. If he wants to see you a lot and he isn't controlling, then you should maybe compromise. That's what relationships are about anyway. so make it 3 days a week.
2007-03-28 13:28:39 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG are you serious......I lived with a guy for 4 years and still didn't get bored or "stuck in a rut". Obviously you don't want this relationship or something if you are already thinking you are going to get bored with him by spending 4 days a week with him...
2007-03-28 13:27:10 · answer #4 · answered by Dana S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to push a guy away who wants to see you more? Its normally the other way around. He's gonna get sick of only seeing you 2 days a week and find someone else he can see 4 days a week. So he is gonna be lookin for a new girlfriend in those extra 2 days you give him! Get ready to meet your replacement!
2007-03-28 13:29:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been seeing him for 2 months and you think 2 days a week is enough? Either you really don't like him that much or you are analyzing things too much. Cross the "getting bored with each other" bridge when you come to it. You're not there yet.
2007-03-28 13:28:46 · answer #6 · answered by thefaz4371 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never put an actual limit. I mean, if you guys are meant for each other, there's no way you'll get bored. You'll just be so excited and happy that you guys see each other. Honestly, I think you're the one that would get bored...and fast. I completely understand BUT if you really like this guy and don't want to push him away...just see him whenever you want/can. Just remember...don't be readily available ALL the time. He'll get used to it and later on he'll take it for granted. So there really is a limit but not to an extent.
2007-03-28 13:29:03 · answer #7 · answered by batchick5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its better 1 day a week or like u say just 2 days a week cause thats true u ll get bored wit each other , its better if u dont see him often its the only way to miss him
2007-03-28 13:29:39 · answer #8 · answered by BUSH HITLER OBRADOR 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a step in the relationship, if you're not ready to see him more then just let go because eventually relationships lead to marriage and it seems he's looking for someone more serious than you. I think limiting your time with something is immature and just doesn't make any sense in general. If you get bored with him then better now than years down the road. If you are using him for specific things then stop it, and grow the hell up.
2007-03-28 13:27:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend as much time as you want the only way to know if you like him if you spend time around each other to make sure he doesn't fart a lot and that he takes showers more than the 2 days a week you see him.
2007-03-28 13:27:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would stick with the 2 days.the 4 days makes it a little bit more complicated than it should be right now.taking it slow in the beginning is best with a new relationship.that way u dont learn everything all at once about each other and there is still some mystery to it.
2007-03-28 13:27:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋