I just recently met this guy like a few weeks ago on myspace n i met him face to face at school like a week later. Were now reeally great friends. Hes the greatest guy and i really really like him. The problem is Im not sure if he likes me like that or just sees me as a friend. He always calls me sexy nd we talk on the phone for hours every night. Were both single now and I want to ask him out or just tell him I like him, but I'm so afraid that he's just gonna turn me down and tell me he just wants to be friends. I don't think I can handle that cause I love him so much. What should I do??
2007-03-28 06:18:57 · 12 answers · asked by nicole 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How do I tell him???
2007-03-28 06:25:57 · update #1
well I think you should tell him,or ask him if has ever thought of us guys as a couple and just see what he would say.Life has good and bad things but you will never know unless you try and find out right?So my advice to you is take a chance just let him know from the start that it wont affect your friendship that way you wont lose him as a friend -k- good luck girl!!!
2007-03-28 06:41:24 · answer #1 · answered by carmel_cutie26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL you love him after meeting a few weeks ago, thats so funny. If you say that and he has any sense he'll run! You don't love him but you like him a lot. Get the facts straight. If you ask him to go to dinner and a movie friends do that all the time, why would he turn you down? If he turns you down he doesn't even consider you his friend. I think he'd go, guys don't like talking on the phone to friends. Because he talks on the phone for so long seems to me he likes you a little more then a friend. Let nature take its course slowly, falling in love takes time. You cant throw clues his way about liking him without coming right out and saying so. If another girl comes up while your talking you might say something like o o careful im the jealous, by his response your know how he feels. IE if he says hey were only friends you can say I'm teasing.
2007-03-28 06:31:43 · answer #2 · answered by letthepartybeginnow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him what kind of a relationship he shares with you and see what he says. If he says a boyfriend/ girlfriend relationship then hooray for you. But if he says a friend, tell him you want to be more than friends because you like him. And i think he really likes you by the way he calls you!
2007-03-28 06:30:06 · answer #3 · answered by CUTIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont want to sound like your mother when I say your rushinginto things...but you claimyou recently met this guy and that you love him.
My advice is to casually bring it up. ask him if he is interested in someone at the moment. You dont want to ask him out and find out he is trying to hook up with someone else or that he has feelings for someone else. If he says no, not atm, or not really, then ask him to go to movies or to dinner then tell him you really like him as more than friends.
Good Luck!
2007-03-28 06:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by krazyyybiotchh! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm well its nice that you made friends but does he like you? Try to find out if he does, or just be friends for now. Don't rush things up. I mean you can as him out, but I wouldn't do that because I don't like it when guys get cocky about it. Then they feel extra special about it. lol But if you want to go for it. Just remember be friends and be yourself and hopefully he likes you back.
2007-03-28 06:26:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys risk rejection from girls all the time. If you want to know the answer to your question, then ask it. You may get a positive reply, but if not then at least you'll know where things stand.
2007-03-28 06:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually that isn't very important.
Just ask him out, there are only two reasons he is your friend. One he wants what you have, or he hits from the other side of the plate.
2007-03-28 06:23:15 · answer #7 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i quit reading right after i saw the word "myspace"
hannah montana is on right now little girl
2007-03-28 06:22:47 · answer #8 · answered by LongDongChong L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it if he calls you sexy i think he likes you
just tell him how you fell sbout him he could be feeling the same way but he might be shy
just go for it
GOOD LUCK!!!!!
2007-03-28 06:23:44 · answer #9 · answered by dorkeepwynces 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's better to know that to wonder. it sounds like he likes you too or he wouldn't have stuck around after you met!!
2007-03-28 06:23:37 · answer #10 · answered by Jellybean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋