Although my boyfriend and I have only been together seriously for about a month, we are very close. We are at the point (at least in my mind) where things are starting to settle in and get comfortable. This truly scares me because I'm afraid he will get bored with me and start looking elsewhere. Normally I let guys go at this point so that I won't be hurt. However, I trully love this guy and want to stay around. Any advice? I guess my question is: is it a good thing to get comfortable or should I change something???
2007-03-28 06:18:52 · 3 answers · asked by Richelle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well,i think i was oce like you.i always ran away be4 the guy got bored and asked to leave.but with time ,i came to think its a self complexity thing.if a guy decides to break off,it because you are too good for him,but if you do stay and make yourself good,you wont be treated anyhow.just dont get desperate and he would then capitalize on this.you are precious,so dont feel little to make any man treat you anyhow.i am sure you have so much deposited on your inself,but you only will allow others to treat you well and then also enjoy that richness that lies within you.
2007-03-28 06:33:26 · answer #1 · answered by bamboke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe its a good thing to get comfortable... but to a certain point. There are always things you two can do you spice up the relationship. I have been with my man for 2 years and I was worried that we were too comfortable, but then I realized I wouldn't know what to without him and we started trying new things, not only in the bedroom but we go out to new places that we both haven't been. Plan get aways for a weekend... go to concerts, and maybe some kind of park and go bike riding, start a softball team with both of your closes friends. Doing new and exciting things will let you be comfortable but yet keep the spice in the relationship.
2007-03-28 13:25:50 · answer #2 · answered by jennisea04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with it. It's scary but worth it if you've found the right guy. Lots of people feel like you do. You're being insecure and irrational. If you never let yourself stay with anyone, you will end up alone, and since you're dating people, I don't think you want to be alone.
2007-03-28 13:28:38 · answer #3 · answered by SomeGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋