alright well my girlfriend broke up with me about 2 months ago. we stayed in contact but i had finally started to get over it 2 weeks ago. well about that same time she started telling me she missed me and wanted to hang out. so we did a couple of times. the first time was really weird, i got depressed and everything was awkward. the second time we just had fun, like we did when we were together, you know just playing around outside and stuff. the third time was at a friends house. again we just had fun. then when we were getting ready to leave she hugged me a lot and kissed my forehead and asked me to carry her to her car and said we needed to see eachother soon. we both went back to our respective colleges after that weekend, and we had planned on seeing eachother that week. so i drove an hour to see her and we went on what she wanted to call a date. we just had some dinner then i was going to spend the night in her room. i thought we could watch a movie... continue below...
2007-03-28 06:15:56 · 10 answers · asked by runninback2822 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just like we always did when we hung out. well she ended up studying all night andi never even got to talk to her really at all. so the next day she didnt talk to me much on the phone or anything, which i thought was weird. then she told my best friend that everything was just weird and she didnt feel anything when i was there. so i talked to her about it and she said that she thought the feelings were coming back but that night she didnt feel it. that was a few days ago and we havent talked since. now she is getting ready to start her period, but i still think this is very weird. she wouldnt stop talking aout how great of a time she had with me just a few nights before. but then when we were together again, she was a different person. now the time when we had a great night we were at home, but once she got back to college, her feelings were different. dont know if this has anything to do with it. but is this common? what should i do?im so confused and sorta pissed.dont know whatto do
2007-03-28 06:20:41 · update #1
hmm
2007-03-28 06:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by Stitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she may be confirming some unresolved feelings for you, do I still love him, could we get back together, would it work? Depending on how your relationship was maybe she's unsure if she did the right thing by leaving you. There's usually still affection for someone you genuinely loved even after it's over. Maybe she was bored in the relationship and longed for the old days of having fun. If she is now saying she just doesn't feel the same it could be that's what she was trying to figure out, of course at the expense of your feelings.
You sound young, Ms. Right will come along one day.
2007-03-28 06:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just lonely. As are you obviously! Ex's only meet up when there is no one else, when they're too busy to get with someone new and/or because they're use to the familiarity and don't want start over with someone new. You're using her just as much as she's using you. You guys probably still have feelings for each other but remember...you broke up for a reason. There is that whole "If you love'em, let'em go and if they return they're yours". You can look at it differently. It all depends on why it ended. You're mainly confused because YOU don't know what you want!
2007-03-28 06:24:24 · answer #3 · answered by batchick5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens when one of you wanted somebody or something else. It is awkward for the one who didn't want the break up, you have the same feelings for them but you both have changed.
It sounds like she has a new life at Her school, it appears to me that she was comparing the two" Friends", and you lost. Be pissed because she came back and screwwed up your head. Find your balance again and move on.
2007-03-28 06:43:02 · answer #4 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it's common, yes. After 2 months she didn't find anyone else and realized she missed a relationship/sex, which relationship/sex=you, so she got ahold of you. But now she realizes she isn't really interested. I say move on and don't let her get ahold of you again. It's no good on the heart.
2007-03-28 06:23:52 · answer #5 · answered by *apes* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a women,and I don't think she's really liking you. Maybe she can't get anyone to fell sorry for her,so she calls you. I hope thats not the case, but thats what it sounds like to me. I think you need to move on,unless you like being confused. Theres more girl out there.
2007-03-28 06:25:28 · answer #6 · answered by floralgirl1960 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Head games
2007-03-28 06:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by droopydog88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-03 16:31:41 · answer #8 · answered by Bland1973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you really love her go for it tell her how you fell .If you're fealling confussed tell her she may make you fell better noing that you're confussed. I hope you to have a happy dating powwow!! good luck if you geat back together.
2007-03-28 06:24:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL SHE MAY WANT YOU BACK. THE QUESTION REALLY IS DO YOU WANT HER BACK. SHE MAY ONLY WANTS TO PLAY WITH YOUR EMOTIONS. TALK TO HER AN BE LIKE WHAT ARE WE DOING HERE. ARE WE FRIENDS OT ARE WE SOMETHING ELSE. ASK HER OR LATER ON YOUR GOING TO BE GETTING HURT.
2007-03-28 06:21:39 · answer #10 · answered by masterdloski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋