2007-03-28 05:52:51 · 14 answers · asked by eddie vedder 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well no i think you should help him with the problem if you have been with that preson for a long time you know
2007-03-28 05:57:11 · answer #1 · answered by tuyen p 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
How 'bout RELEASING yourself and him from the relationship. No need for " dumping ". Would you want someone else to stay with you knowing they weren't really into you anymore? Don't think so. So do him a favor and have the necessary conversation clearly while still compassionately expressed so as to release both of you to get on with your life's to find another as you choose.
If you feel that you may be staying with him as he is experiencing health anxiety...than that is something else for you to decide there. Be aware though...care not to hold yourself emotional hostage. That would be something you would be doing to your own self.
Before (or shortly after) you have the ' talk ' with him maybe contact one or two of his family members or friends so they will be aware of what is going so they can step in and be there for him to help him through the break up.
And...you didn't " have to " put up with him as you wrote. You were with him because you CHOSE to. Pleasant relationship or not...it was your own choice.
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2007-03-28 06:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by onelight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have spent 2 years "putting up with it", imagine another 10 or 20 - you up for that? It is not likely to change and will most probably get worse as he gets older. Think about where you want to be in 10 years, and if this isn't it, take a walk now and move on. You are missing out on the rest of your life.
2007-03-28 05:58:54 · answer #3 · answered by Rowena 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look, you shouldn't have to go out with him just through pity. I think you should if that's how you feel. You're supposed to be his girlfriend, not his mother. Stay friends by all means, and try to help him, but he should learn to be more independant if he suffers from health anxiety.
2007-03-28 06:18:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like you have been putting up with it for two years then why did you carry on with him for so long? do you see yourself with him in say 5 years time? Is he attempting to get better? Its hard but you have to think about yourself as well - if he is bringing you down to then thats not good.
2007-03-28 05:58:38 · answer #5 · answered by ejb199 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love him then no you should help him,support him..Don't look at it as "putting up with" !! Doesn't sound like love to me so maybe he'd be better off with someone else..We all have health problems at some point in our lives...
2007-03-28 05:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by trish b 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think if you wanted to break up with him, you wouldn't be asking this question. you are confused as to what to do but you shouldn't get your answer from here, after all we don't know you, him or how your relationship is like. talk to someone close to you but i don't think you want to break up with him because if you did, you would have done so already instead of asking a question online. good luck!
2007-03-28 05:59:37 · answer #7 · answered by prettyme 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, else you'll hurt him even more and keep him hanging on for long. That'll break his heart more. Good luck
2007-03-28 06:01:16 · answer #8 · answered by Nish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say don't give up unless there are other issues or you don't love him anymore. I say he deserves you sticking through it with him.
2007-03-28 05:57:50 · answer #9 · answered by *apes* 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If his problem is making you unhappy then it is time to end it and get on with your life.
2007-03-28 05:58:04 · answer #10 · answered by Granny 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋