im been going out with my bf for 2 months now, we waited a month to sleep together, he told me he has ever only slept with two people we've only had sex a couple of times i get the feeling he was a virgin cause he came quickly, but said that was cause he aint had it in 3 months and he's gotta get used to the feeling again but it seems to me he never wants sex why is that were both 23.
2007-03-28 05:50:57 · 14 answers · asked by SHY1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
plus iv got my own place so we've got our own space to do what ever we want without people walking in
2007-03-28 06:13:57 · update #1
Lol.
The lie detector hasn't been invented yet.
2007-03-28 05:53:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, what he said is true. The way to prevent cumming too quickly is to masterbate. Maybe tha is not his thing. After a few times it will take longer and longer. Some might know this but the secret to not coming fast is to take your mind off of what you are doing. Tell him think about anything other than how goo the sex is. It works.
2007-03-28 05:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by Niddy G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He could have came quickly from not having it in a while alright.
I can think of 4 reasons he's uninterested in sex;
1. He's not confident in his abiltiy to perform
2. He's not sexually attracted to you.
3 He's confused about his sexuality.
4. He has a low sex drive (few reasons for this e.g depression).
2007-03-28 06:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
...yah!!!...going without for awhile will throw any guy's rhythm off the tracks hun...but then it probably would throw a woman a little bit of a curve in her tracks too. I say you like what you like...and you get used to being thrilled often...especially if you're in a highly sexually driven relationship anyways. Be gentle with his spirit babe. He'll get back into his great rhythm...with some practice....don't ya agree?
2007-03-28 05:56:34 · answer #4 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could just be shy, and gets nervous when he thinks about that first time.
My first I didnt get there because I was too nervous about people walking in lol
2007-03-28 05:55:51 · answer #5 · answered by Sabre 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's like riding a bike, you never forget how to do that do you?
He probably ejaculated quickly because he has not had sex for a while, that can happen and is normal, but I don't think it's a case of getting used to it again
2007-03-28 05:55:05 · answer #6 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
23 and he doesn't want to have sex? That's odd! At that age, all I could think about was sex. Either, he's gay, he's cheating and doesn't need it from you, has herpes and he's is trying to clear up betweeen outbreaks, or he's gay! Oh, did I mention he might be gay?
2007-03-28 05:58:14 · answer #7 · answered by Millionaire in training 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's just that he isnt too much into sex (like me). same symptoms. u just need to work out a few foreplays and funny kinky games / dresses to get him into the mood.
(will a cat forget or dislike milk ?)
2007-03-28 05:55:34 · answer #8 · answered by Cant stop thinking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something wrong with him..
He should be wanting sex twice a day...
Break up and move on...
Don't waste your time with this guy..
2007-03-28 05:54:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes not doin it for a while can do that but you would think he would want it more so yea id say virgin
2007-03-28 05:54:48 · answer #10 · answered by jbcc924 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋