how do you ask out the man of your dreams? Whose in 12th grade and your in 10th? and he's a football player, lacrose playeer, and homecoming king. But also the nicest guy in school.
2007-03-28 05:45:36 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all you realize that next year he will be off to college? and i hate to be the one to say it but college changes people... its a new time in your life. Most men their frosh year of college dont want to be tied down, espically if they plan on playin football!!!
But if your determined go for it. Just sit back and also know that he could say "NO" so be prepared for that!
When you say "ask out" do you you mean on a date or to be an official couple? if its just for a date just casually say "hey what you doin this weekens?" and if he says "oo i dont know" just slighly mention "well, if your not too busy, we should maybe catch a movie or something!?" and leave it at that...
if your talking about as an official couple i would wait... hit up a few dates before and let him make that decision...
like i said he's graduating, he getting ready to move on while your still stuck in High School.
think about it and good luck!
2007-03-28 05:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by AC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well seeing that you know he has a great personality it's safe to assume that you have actually talked with him, which is a good start. Don't let the fact that he's prom king, football player and all those things get in the way, not even age. Get to know him on a more personal level, become friends with him go to the movies with him as friends don't let the fact that you have feelings for him make you all jittery. Once you and him feel comfortable with each other, you can tell him you like him as more than a friend apposed to telling him just right out of the blue, being friends with him first helps ease up on the awkwardness if he doesn't happen to share your feelings.
good luck =)
2007-03-28 05:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by orlis_girl_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite Him over To Your House After School One Day (So Hes Not Around His Buddies, Whom Will Make Him Act foolish) And Just Hang Out If Its Meant To Be There Will Be That Quietness Between A Conversation and Just say hey what do u think of us seeing each other exclusively !!!and if he likes you he will say yes
2007-03-28 05:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Mae ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe you should open this question to the guys. It would be a great source of input for you. Do you talk to this guy? Are you friends? Casually ask him to go out with you to the movies or hang out somewhere. But do it when he's not around his guy friends. If you don't know each other too well, start lite conversation when you're around each other. Then work up to asking him out. If he does know you ... How do you know that he doesn't want to ask you out?
2007-03-28 05:52:37 · answer #4 · answered by FriendshipInVegas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's the man of my dreams but also very nice, I would say: hey, lets go to the movies this weekend! Then Id see what happens and if everything goes well Id invite him home to watch a football game, buy popcorn and ribs, some drinks and invite his buddies and some of my friends. That way he wont take it in the wrong way. :D
2007-03-28 05:50:32 · answer #5 · answered by bloodymary24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should arrange an elaborate ruse to entrap him. Usually this works out best in the shower after (or before) Lacrosse or Football practice. You can use your eyes like a viper and entrance him with your gaze. If this fails, you should start a hunger strike.
2007-03-28 05:49:35 · answer #6 · answered by feeble_zeeble 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just see if he even knows that you exist first. buddy up to him make some sort of friendship but don't become best friends those relationships don't work. then ask him out and if he doesn't want to date you then by already having a friendship things could change. keep in mind that most sports guys are not who they appear to be on the outside that they are on the in get to know him well first.
2007-03-28 05:53:54 · answer #7 · answered by geek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start talking to him... thats the only way you'll know if he will go out with you... flirt around a little... and if hes the nicest guy im sure he'll give you a chance.
2007-03-28 05:48:46 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Cucumber Melon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, become friends with the guy (just so you guys can get to know eachother first). Then, once you guys have hung out for while, just start off a casual conversation and ease your way into asking him out!
2007-03-28 05:50:40 · answer #9 · answered by Taylor A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Hey whats up? What are you doing this weekend? Oh well I was just wondering if you'd wanna hang out. Have you been to the movies lately?..." Uh duh. I don't see why people have such a hard time with this. If you're really the nice guy you say you are and I was the girl, it'd be totally easy!
2007-03-28 06:03:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋