I know how male players work... charm, confidence, charisma... but how do female players work? What turns a man to butter? I'm tired of being a nice girl. It's time to get in the game! ;-) Advice from both guys and gals would be excellent.
2007-03-28 05:41:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why is it that men are never considered sluts or whores?! It drives me completely mad... arg
2007-03-28 06:07:00 · update #1
The best way to be a lady player is to simply act like the men do. Whatever they do to get a woman to go crazy, you do the same. I used to be a nice girl ( still am ) I just added a little flavor to the mix. Stay busy, confident in all that you do, don't stop your life for no man and never wait aroud for him. That is exactly what they do so you give them a dose of their own medicine and viola!!!! Once you can do all of this, don't ever slip up and let the nice girl back out because then it's back to square 1. Staying in contrlo at all times is the key. Never lose contrlo of the situation.
2007-03-28 05:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by teri d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I was just day dreaming about David Beckham - he is here in Australia at the moment. Damn it and then you asked me about football players just when I was tyring to get Becks off my mind. I think soccer players are the hottest but not so much other football players. David Beckham is the most gorgous guy - it's the fitness partly. Ladies also like firemen the idea of someone coming to rescue me sounds pretty good : ) Football player or fireman - either way you'll be popular with the ladies.
2016-03-17 03:58:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me just say I love this question.
Girls have it alot easier when it comes to getting guys to fall for them because we're alot easier to please. As long as you have the goods to work with, show a little skin (without going overboard), touch the guy when you talk to him (a touch on the shoulder or leg can go a long way), and one move that I always fall for is when a girl turns and smiles at me while she's walking away.
Just make sure you don't cross the line between a girl player and a slut. And keep in mind moves can only get you so far, you the looks to go with it.
2007-03-28 05:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by traxxman123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually just by you being a woman you could go about it in many different ways. The way you look a guy could melt him, flirtatious behavior, feeding into his ego, pretending to take interest in his likes. But the thing is why would you want to do something like that. It is nothing wrong with being a so called nice girl. You can get anything that you want from just one man by being the person you already you are. Being "in the game" so to speak is not all it is cracked up to be..you won't be truly happy and always alone.
2007-03-28 05:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
few words of advice:....a MAn CAN ALWAYS be a man without any **** behind it (meaning he can cheat and be a player)...HOWEVER, a women Can never do what he does and get away wit hit!...@ some point or another in every womens wife they MAY feel how you feel now, and may even attempt to act on it but A REAL WOMEN will never be a player...we all get hurt; some more than otherl its all apart of life but dont turn into a slut...because that will only make your life more complicated....think your hearts broken now...start sleeping around and see whta man will evr wife you! TRUST!!
good luck
2007-03-28 05:46:59 · answer #5 · answered by somebodysmamasoon 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
how to be a female player, first you got to believed that you are one, second you have to stop being nice to people. go be a good girl, dont ever be a nice girl, because people will try to take advantage on nice people. anyhow, got to know how to ask for things, "if you ask, you'll recieved." dont be an order taker, be an order giver, be demanding, at the same time, be someone that earn respect instead of being like, i rather people respect me then to like me/,
2007-03-28 05:59:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident, flirty and fun! Play hard to get... you don't want to seem easy or get a bad reputation. At the same time be carefull, you could end up meeting a great guy and get too wrapped up in the "player" part of it to notice. Have fun and don't hurt anyone's feelings!
2007-03-28 05:45:39 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Be sweet very very sweet, to the point that they think you are the most honest person in the world, be consistent. Once he falls and falls hard, ummm you probably will lose interest and leave him, because you ALREADY ARE A PLAYA BOSS!
2015-11-03 14:51:45 · answer #8 · answered by Amy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will just do it, you don't have to say anything XD, being a man player is hard, being a lady player is easy (whore?)
2007-03-28 05:45:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Trying to be something you're not always fails... it just come natural
2007-03-28 05:46:33 · answer #10 · answered by Khalil 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋