to be or not to be thats the question sould i ask her or not?

Question

well i split with my gf just before crimbo this year.we had been together for 2 years am 21 in july and shes turning 20 in april.i know we are young and everything but still after not being with her after all this time about 4 months am still in love with her if not even more then ever.most of my working day is spend thinking about her.we are not speaking and have not since r spilt.ive writen her letters and posted them to her house explanning that i was sorry for upsetting her and that i wanted to be friends if not more.now she's got a new bf ive been told by her work friends that she still speaks of me and about me even after all this time.but while we was together we was speaking about gettin married and getting a house i wanted all this but wanted the freedom first while she was in my life.the mazzive problem now is am starting my army training on the 12th april.i want to see her again before i go but i think ill get a bad reply at this time

so i was thinkinig shall i leave it all till i go on leave from the army and speak to her....or what i was think was to go to her in my uniform show her what ive done and where ive got in the time we aint been together and ask her to marry me cos thats what she wanted wen we was together..........but i know and her friends know she dont love her new bf and that its only a rebound as she got with him 1 month after we split helpppp ive not got long lol

Answer 1

A man did this to me once ... Some one I loved but he really hurt me . He showed up in uniform... It was a total shock! We had a lovely weekend together but it was very bad timing 4 me as I worked & was in a relationship at the time. My suggestion to you is go to her right before you leave 4 camp. Tell her you will be going to the army. If she cares 4 you she will be so worried as the situation is bad overseas!Spend the whole weekend w/ her then this time she'll have in her mind waiting 4 your return. If you r ment to be together. Those weeks you r at training she will be dreaming of you. Your absence will warm her heart & the exciting new life you have ahead will weigh heavy on her mind!! good luck!!!