this is the same question as before he punches her in the stomach and face and made her head bleed from flipping her off a ride on bike on purpose.... what should i do i showed this to the kids mom and this is her response..i understand that andrew can be mean at times but hes not a evil little boy, and not as mean as your making him out to be. hes a BOY!!!! everyone plays rough with him, tom does too. i only heard chris's side of what happened. and i'm not being stubborn i just havent had time to talk to chris about this situation, and yes andrew does ask about you guys. i can really care less about what other people think! he's only 4 he will grow out of it. its weird andrew has been going to school now for about 3 weeks and his teacher says he is doing great, no bad talk no hitting so i belive it is a fase. you know we love angel alot, but NEITHER one of the kids i think know the concept of sharing and thats were the fustration comes in on BOTH ends.
2007-03-28 05:37:34 · 8 answers · asked by melanie 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
there young still they both will grow out of it and its kinda hard because you have a girl and i have a boy.boys and girls are completely different. i will be able to know more once i have my little girl, and i bet they will be completely different! chris doesn't want to lose a ten year friendship. hes called the house a couple of times but you did not talk or want to talk. so as far as im concerned on that end i think he has tried to make an effort, but it takes two to make something happen. sure i understand when someone disaplines their child weather it is spanks or time-out they apologize to them but it is also important to let them know that what they did was wrong. ALL parents do not like to punish there kids for what ever it might be, and you can't say you don't. i know i don't. ya know, it was just kinda weird that you told chris that you don't ever want andrew around angel but a week and a half later we recieve an invite to her party, don't you think that is a little weird?
2007-03-28 05:37:57 · update #1
don't get me wrong i do and always remember when her birthday is and she will recieve something because neither one of the kids knows what really is going on. now like i said before i only know chris's half and a little of your side. now i guess it is up to you to decide what to do from here
love to all
i couldnt fit it all in one so i added it like this what should i do refer to this question if u want full details on what happened to my daughter....http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ao6hPQgTkUpF.ni3kx7HAx7sy6IX?qid=20070326124129AAxSkeu
2007-03-28 05:39:38 · update #2
There is just no telling some people. They won't get it no matter what you say or how you say it. You need to tell her you're not going to allow her son to play with your child anymore. If he can't behave appropriately then that's it. And yes he is a boy, but it's sound a little extreme what he's doing. Maybe if the mom realizes her son is going to lose a playmate over his out of control behavior, she MIGHT be more willing to take this seriously. But I wouldn't hold my breath if I were you. Sounds like she and her son are not worth your time and energy. Good luck.
2007-03-28 07:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by disneychick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't really understand the whole gist of your question, but I would not let a 4 year old beat up on my 3 year old. You tell him that is behavior will not be tolerated, and that he can't do it again. If his parents won't do anything about it, you're kinda stuck. I would punish him myself if I were you, but then you risk legal action. If you can't get it to stop, you should remove your child from the situation permanently. She shouldn't have to deal with his violence at all! Good luck.
2007-03-28 05:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by Stephene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The boy's mother is completley wrong!! That boy is so violent! You need to keep your child away from him. You don't want to put her in danger of getting hurt. I mean you'd you like your daughter hanging out with someone who is making her bleed, and getting her hurt!! My advise is to tell the mother her son is out of control and he is a bad as you explain him to be. Then after that just make sure they don't get near each other. If they go to school togther then tell the teacher they NEED to be away from eachother for personla saftey reasons.
2007-03-28 05:46:23 · answer #3 · answered by bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do since his mother is oblivious to what her child is doing is to keep your child away from hers. Children don't outgrow behavior like that. They have to be taught that hitting is unacceptable behavior. Violence is not just a phase that someone outgrows.
2007-03-28 05:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by greeneyedredhead 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boys are different and sometimes more boisterous and rough but this is way beyond that and they are not giving him the discipline he needs. You have to protect you daughter and not take her around him at all.
2007-03-28 05:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by samira 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello duh keep your kid away from him. dont allow this. your child is your responsibility if this happens while your child is at this persons house find a new sitter today. and report her to cps. your child should not be out side alone anyway if this is not a child daycare problem. get off your lazy butt and watch your child. and dont let it happen. be the adult dont let this child hit yours, keep your kid inside with you,
2007-03-28 05:44:02 · answer #6 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he cant get through her head and life goes on..
2007-03-28 05:42:34 · answer #7 · answered by eviot44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep her away from him plain and simple sheesh
if his mother is so stupid and does not want to discipline him then keep her away
2007-03-28 05:45:59 · answer #8 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋