I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months now, so yes, i know it's early days yet but.....
we met through a dating website and although we're getting on really well and he seems to like me every bit as much as I like him.... I discovered today that he's still regulary logging in to the dating site we met on.
maybe I'm just over analysing, after all I had logged into the site myself (to see how long ago he last logged in mind). I think I'm falling for him and so I suppose it's natural to be cautious....(?!?!!?!)
what do you think??....
2007-03-28 05:34:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it is good that you know he is doing that,
because you know where you stand, and you can take as long as you want to make any kind of comittment.
2007-03-28 05:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to be very careful....
Ask him about his logging in to the dating website and see what he says. Maybe he is just logging in to see if you are logging in.
It is natural and smart to be cautious. I know of a couple of online matches that have worked extremely well and led to marriage, but I know of an equal number that were disasters.
2007-03-28 12:40:14 · answer #2 · answered by c_n_s130 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Notice how you said, "I've been seeing this guy...". It doesn't sound like you two are "official". He is entitled to log in and chat with other girls. When it does become official that you are bf/gf, then it will be shady if he is still logging on and I'd call him out on it.
2007-03-28 12:42:04 · answer #3 · answered by sirtitan45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends, have the 2 of you ever discussed exactly what your relationship is. Have you both agreed to be exclusive? or are you just going out every now and then getting to know one another. If you havent discussed where the relationship is going and you are falling for him maybe its time to ask where he see's the two of you going before you get to involved and hurt.
2007-03-28 12:46:50 · answer #4 · answered by michele_zanella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think hes on a dating site to meet and date lots of girls, not get tied down to one. Apparently he isnt ready for a relationship, or you are moving way to fast. If he liked you as much as you liked him would he be still signing into the date site? NO he wouldn't. A lot of guys sign up for these sites to get sex, if youve given him sex you were both used and played like all the others. If you havent done it, you havent given him what he was out to get and hes moving on to find what he sign up for to begin with.
2007-03-28 12:43:33 · answer #5 · answered by letthepartybeginnow 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think its normal..ask for his account details so you can log on and read his msgs to see if his chatting to other women or not
2007-03-28 12:38:35 · answer #6 · answered by Tookie Williams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
>>I'm falling for him and so I suppose it's natural to be cautious...
Yes!
2007-03-28 14:18:56 · answer #7 · answered by S c a l p e r 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋