I have bad luck when it comes to guys.
2007-03-28 05:33:55 · 24 answers · asked by StEpHeRs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when you stop looking that is when one will find you
2007-03-28 05:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by diana j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try expanding your options on choosing men by looking at inner character traits rather than only appearance. If your lucky you may find a guy that is both attractive and nice. Just treat dating the same way as selecting a new employer. Take into consideration their character, how much they enjoy helping people, intelligence, past relationship experiences. You get the idea. Try dating guys that have good grades and are involved in community service. As corny as this sounds it may work. Don't date guys with questionable character and date ones that have a good social "Resume". Sorry to sound corny but it's the best analogy I can think of.
2007-03-28 05:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call it bad luck. Don't encourage that sort of aura over yourself. It's probably just bad choices. The main thing to remember is that you don't have to choose a man because he chooses you. It's ok to be a bit picky as long as you are reasonable. Learn to be more discriminating. Take things slowly and try to cultivate a solid friendship first. Get the guy's respect and the rest will fall into place. Don't give up. Sometimes you have to kiss a few toads before you meet Prince Charming.
2007-03-28 05:43:05 · answer #3 · answered by bombastic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a variety of reasons.
1. Nobody's perfect. Maybe you're too picky?
2. Unfortunately, the bad guys are usually the ones that are best at stirring up that feeling of attraction in you. They provide mystery and excitement and adventure. Maybe that's why you have "bad luck" when it comes to guys.
3. Maybe you're not looking hard enough. While relatively rare, there are good guys out there who still provide that kind of "bad buy" fun and adventure without the abuse. Trust me, I would know...I am one and I know a bunch of them as well.
Just some thoughts...hope this helps.
2007-03-28 05:43:06 · answer #4 · answered by yngmillionaire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not saying that you do.... but dont go for looks and get to know the guy well before you get serious with him... Speaking as the good guy that i am.... i have blocked myself off from relationships for the reason that the girls i have gotten to know have in one way or another cheated or just lied to me.... sooner or later i will be ready for a relationship again but the thought of being cheated on or lied to sticks around.... pretty much a lot of good guys have been screwed so they really dont put themselves out there and that leaves only the jerks to be found.
2007-03-28 05:50:13 · answer #5 · answered by Mando 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there r a lot of good guys around but it is just a matter of getting to find the right guy at the right time. For instance, me :)
2007-03-28 05:37:02 · answer #6 · answered by Cant stop thinking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont waste time on trying to find the right guy, be single, have fun and wait for him to come to you, life is too short to always be searching. either that or you could give every guy you meet the 20 questions how many g/fs have you had, do you still talk to them, whyd you break up, can i meet them, lol
2007-03-28 05:38:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont lower your standards for anyone and get to know a guy before you even think about starting a relationship... also ive found that a good guy will come when your not looking for him
2007-03-28 05:38:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First drop the clubs, and bars, all you find there are jerks and players. Second don't go to bed with them (I mean, if you do), once you sleep with a player you become another notch in the belt, and he start looking for his next girlfriend.
2007-03-28 05:42:54 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you're looking in the wrong places and finding the wrong guys. they'll mess with your heart and when you find that one perfect guy, you don't know whether to trust him or not. but don't worry, i bet he's posting a question right now asking where all the good girls are! i promise, you'll find him!
~Claire
2007-03-28 05:39:19 · answer #10 · answered by Silent Rumours 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a matter of bad luck...its the impression you give off that atrracts certain guys...be a respectable girl and you'lll find a good guy :)
2007-03-28 05:41:10 · answer #11 · answered by StinkyDec19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋