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I realized my shyness is hurting me in the long run. I talked to this social guy and he said he knew and chilled with the people in his suite and he had no trouble getting teacher recommendations because all his teachers knew him. I don't know the people I live with, I don't have any teachers that know me and can give me recommendations, I can't get any jobs or internships because of that, I don't know any girls and I have like only 5 good friends, so I can't get a girlfriend. I basically realized that I have to be more social because not being social is hurting me.

2007-03-28 05:28:59 · 5 answers · asked by peon 3 in Health Mental Health

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I'm the same way! Once I got my little circle of friends in 3rd grade I stuck w/ them and haven't made any new friends since. I'm not stuck up or anything I just have a hard time talking to people I don't know. If your shyness is starting to effect work, school, or things like that you may have anxiety problems. And in the long run this can lead to depression b/c you isolate yourself. I talked to my doctor and I've tried medicines but in the long run you just have to give it a try and hope for the best. Just by putting yourself out there and trying to be more social you are overcoming alot.

2007-03-28 05:43:32 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0 0

Serve to others.Be happy about others have good jobs and pretty girlfriends,.Always try to help the others.Be polite.Don't
tell lies.always tell the truth(Looking at the situation).Don't tell
others bad habits to your friends.Always Liston to others and
try to be democratic.

most important think is close to religion.most frequently go to church or temple and meet the father or priest.

2007-03-28 12:44:19 · answer #2 · answered by isu 1 · 0 0

Stop playing World of Warcraft and get a job. Goto parks. just be around people and people will start being around you.. got it?

2007-03-28 12:41:58 · answer #3 · answered by atticus_loser03 2 · 0 0

try to join a social activity.. like a sports club

2007-03-28 12:32:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

By being social and not otherwise!

2007-03-28 12:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by Sami V 7 · 0 0

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