I recently told you guys about my dilema ondtaying witha guy who isnt my type or being with my ex. Well I kinda didnt chose either. Im currently single, but theres more. Im kinda in this anything goes deal with my ex. We know theres no strings attached and its just sex. Am I making a mistake?
2007-03-28 05:27:28 · 12 answers · asked by Tiffany c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like you’re talking to your shrink.
2007-03-28 05:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by saehli 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
absolutely..its no strings attached, so basically he doesnt have to tell you if he is sleeping with anyone else..so if he has an STD he probably wouldnt tell you (and he might not know)
would you want to have a kid with your ex? if you wouldnt want to, then i wouldnt screw him at all.
and one more thing: you are gradually learning disrepect for yourself and in the future you wil probably have more of these anything goes" deals with other men, who will make you eventually feel terrible about who you are and lower your own perception of yourself and your self esteem..
and plus, if youre asking us if youre making a mistake, then you must be questioning your own decision to have a "anything goes deal"...which means your gut is talking, and telling you that THIS IS WRONG.
theres a great guy out there who wants more than sex. but if you dont act like you deserve him (meaning, act respectable) you wont find him. "treat yourself like a queen, and you will find your king"
stop screwing around with these assholes. you can do so much better than a guy who is "always up for a screw"..those guys are called "scrubs"
2007-03-28 12:35:21 · answer #2 · answered by StinkyDec19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best to break things off with the ex because this situation will not be appealing to future guys that you meet, who will most likely want a relationship with you. You also have to consider the fact that feelings could resurface between you & your ex. Is this something you'd want?
2007-03-28 12:37:00 · answer #3 · answered by darkshadows9 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah because mixed feelings can come and an idea about giving the relationship another try will come up.
2007-03-28 12:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by Aila126 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no is it justa period of time in your life that you have to experience before marriage...do not fall in love with that one
do it with someone who really deserve u
2007-03-28 12:31:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep...break it off with ex...
2007-03-28 12:30:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends if ur a cold, heartless person or not...
2007-03-28 12:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what you want...do you want love or sex?
2007-03-28 12:30:42 · answer #8 · answered by pooky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouuuuuuu ... yuck.... I an't stand my ex.... He shaved his whole body .... I think hes gay!!!!! hahahahahahhaha!!!!!
2007-03-28 12:39:03 · answer #9 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
come on..feelings will happen
2007-03-28 12:29:59 · answer #10 · answered by Princess AJ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋