After seeing my bad scar on my stomach, my girlfriend still wanna be with me. At least, that what she is telling me. I don't believe her, but she still wanna kick it with me. She really like me and my company, but she doesn't like me for my looks. We do have sex. how can I really tell if she is for real or not? Or it just me being insecured? She is very cute and can have whoever she want. I don't know. what do u think? is I'm being played or I should just trust her love for me? what are some signs that i'm being played?
2007-03-28
05:24:41
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Another thing, she still wanna be labeled as my girlfriend. After asking
her if she wanted out of the relationship. is it a good thing or a bad thing?
2007-03-28
05:32:07 ·
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You have some insecurity issues you probably need to deal with. If you don't then your going to push this girl away. What does she have to gain by staying with you? If it's not something superficial then it must be you. Give yourself some credit for who you are. We are all different on the outside. What makes you who you are is what is on the inside.
2007-03-28 05:42:21
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answered by love2breal2003 1
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sounds like thier is a huge gap in here for lust and not love. seems to me that a little growing up here on both sides .. if its true love you will know without asking. get over the insecure thing.. and be careful having casual sex. Its dangerous.Sex is not Love.. when its love sex is just the iceing on the cake. Good luck....
2007-03-28 05:32:01
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answered by shakannaglory 2
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Don't fret dude you aint in love with her and i doubt you will marry her so make use of what time you have. A scar on the stomach is not that bad compared to a scar elsewhere count your blessings.
2007-03-28 05:29:42
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answered by Anonymous
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From what i have been through i would say to just keep your guard up... If she gets calls and walks out the room or says she cant talk when you are around dont go crazy about it but look out for things like that.... Don't go crazy questioning her... but always pay attention to what is happening around you and dont ignore the little signs that come up....
2007-03-28 05:36:21
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answered by Mando 2
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ASK her how she feels and look her in the eye..you'll be able to tell if she is lying..........you are probably insecure due to your scar..let it go...you wasting your time on it...so what ???? you have a scar.....big deal...millions of people have scars..some smaller and some bigger than yours.....worry about things you have control over and NOT that!
2007-03-28 05:29:49
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answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4
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She is still with you, if she didn't want to be she would have gone.
Your being insecure.
Relax and enjoy the relationship
2007-03-28 05:29:14
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answered by dancingmaveric 3
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If you are being played, she would avoid being with you, or she will be with you, but she asks you to buy her things. She can be overly friendly with your friends. When you guys have plans, she can cancel at the drop of the hat.
2007-03-28 05:29:44
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answered by triste_girl 3
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omg. its a scar. like she is really gunna leave you because you have a scar on your stomach!! she loves you.
2007-03-28 05:28:47
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answered by pooky 2
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does she tell you about her day? her life? her dreams? her friends and family? does she seem like a liar to you?
ask yourself those questions without emotion. reality check.
peace.
2007-03-28 05:29:54
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answered by Anonymous
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what would she be playing you for? if she aint sticking around for your looks its most likely that she actually likes you.
2007-03-28 05:28:48
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answered by Youll See 4
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