why do guys put so much of their choices for women on looks i know they are important to you and that is what attracts at first but what about the other they have to offer for instance intelligence, wittiness, sincereity, things like that
2007-03-28 05:22:01 · 13 answers · asked by sunshiner26 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, the more mature a guy gets, the more experience he has in figuring out what he is looking for in a woman. Looks do matter to a certain degree. I think that you should not get into a relationship with someone if you do find them physically attractive. I also believe that the person's inside affects how other percieve their physical appearance.
Case in point. I had a coworker who all the guys thought was supermodel material. No matter how hard I looked, I could not see this. I knew how manipulative and vicious she could be. I couldn't see any beauty in her.
We've all met people who we didn't think were our type and found ourselves physically attracted to them. This is because we got to know them. Got to appreaciate the person inside.
Immature men do not know what they are looking for. Do not yet understand how important the person inside is.
Once they gain some expereince, hopefully, they will realize how important personality is. How important are attitude, humor, intelligence and compatibility.
Don't worry. Take your time. Someday you'll be in a relationship. Have kids. Then you'll remember with fondness, hanging out with friends, sleeping in late. Going where you wanted when you wanted...
Take your time in finding Mr. Right.
Good luck.
A~
2007-03-28 05:48:12 · answer #1 · answered by BigMac2xk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there anyway a female can show that they are intelligent on their face. Men attaracted to the beauty first, and once they come to know each other they will learn about the other things such as intelligence etcc...what do you women look in a man. First you too will get a physical attraction. thats the way its work.
2007-03-28 12:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by Ethen Perera 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like you said at first there has to be some attraction. now to keep them to build a relationship depends on intelligence, wittiness, sincerity, things like that.
we can ask a female the same thing.
2007-03-28 12:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by glue stick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these days love aren't really blind anymore, last time love was like a bliss, these days i feel it's more like a fun thing to do and for guys, it would be cool for him to tell his friends " i have a girlfriend ", and wouldn't it be nicer if he could actually make his friends more jealous by getting a girl with a beautiful look? to advertise her in other sense
they are also pressure by peers where friends or cousin they will say that this girl is not pretty and all, and if you're not really in love with the girl, you'll care more about what your friends say then what you feel for her. Guys..they feel a lot more proud bringing a beautiful chick with them
again, not all guys are like that, but most guys are
2007-03-28 12:42:45 · answer #4 · answered by wai2kit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men do but not all. If I had the choice of a dumb supermodel versus an intelligent (What would be the politicaly correct way of saying this?) plump women. I would chose the intelligent one. But that's just me.
2007-03-28 12:29:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
truth, honesty, reality? Men are at first sight driven by sex. Every girl they ever meet is immediatley considered a potential sex partner. That's not to say that a guy can't get to know a girl and fall for them. That happened to me once.
2007-03-28 12:26:12 · answer #6 · answered by krusty477 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intelligence has always come first to me
2007-03-28 12:25:45 · answer #7 · answered by bolt1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That comes into play after looks!
2007-03-28 16:29:17 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks bring me in, but personality keeps me around.
2007-03-28 12:25:31 · answer #9 · answered by randyken 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My general rule of thumb I use to generalize females... if they are hott, chances are they are stupid. If they are ugly, then they are lazy and don't take care of themselves, and if they look normal/good.... that's the one you want!
2007-03-28 12:52:06 · answer #10 · answered by SoulRebel79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋