is trust a big part of a relationship, and if trust is broken so much , and they promised alot of things they never kept, so u think trust can ever be rebuilt.
2007-03-28 05:02:56 · 19 answers · asked by pretty girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust is an important aspect of a relationship and sometimes when that bond is broken it's really hard to mend and gain that bond back. You can learn to Trust again but, sometimes it can be really hard, especially if the perosn that broke the trust isn't working to help make it better......You may also have to search within yourself to see if you want to mend the relationship once the trust is lost....
2007-03-28 05:18:03 · answer #1 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a HUGE part of a relationship, but depending on how long you've been with the person in question, I think people talk big and don't always come through... I'm guilty of it, your guilty of it, everyone is. But i think if you say something like "i wanna get married to you" or "I promise i will spend the rest of my life with you" Or "As soon as you get this done, I promise we will get married" i think things like this should be the things you should worry about comming through on, not peddy little things in a relationship. Trust and Faith are two different things, Trust is when you let the person you love do whatever they want and not have a single doubt of infadelity in your mind, trust is when you are willing to go along with whatever the other person's plans may be. Trust is what makes love work. Having Faith in a person is a different story, you should have a lot of Faith in your Partner/mate, and push them to do better if they slip away on they're goals. Having faith in someone is always being by their side no matter what they do. I think these two things are what holds a relationship together
2007-03-28 05:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by Deformation Age 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the biggest part of a relationship. Once it is broken it is very hard to get it back. The other person has to change for a long time and do trustworthy things for a long long time before you can trust them again. If the other person does not change you will never trust them and you will be miserable. Sounds like you should move on.
2007-03-28 05:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by Audrey C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust. hmm. well i do believe that trust is a big part of a relationship. i think it is one of the most important things. if the person keeps breaking trust and promises then there is none. trust can be rebuilt but depending on the circumstance. however i think after a trust issue is broken twice it will never come back. the situation that broke the trust will sit in the back of you Mind for a long long time.
2007-03-28 05:08:41 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was cheated on many years ago (after a ten year relationship). I sought out info on the web and found that only 10 percent of couples ever truly recover from cheating. And their relationship will only survive with intense counseling. I think that once trust is broken, it is almost impossible to get it back and you should be in a relationship without trust.
2007-03-28 05:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by searching_please 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is definitely a big part of a relationship. For me personally, if you did something that made me not trust you anymore....I would have to break it off. Because in the back of my mind I would think you would do it again to me. Or I'll keep bringing up to your attention. That's not good for any relationship
2007-03-28 05:08:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is 90% of a long term relationship. It can be rebuilt, but it is extremely difficult. The betrayer has to allow the betrayed to have total and absolute access to their lives and feelings. Even if that person wants to rehash all the gory details over and over and over, that should be ok to help them get over triggers and the emotional backlash. Open access to phones and emails. Open access to thoughts and feelings. Check out this website that addresses these things and gives you tools to begin work on it.
It is almost impossible, but there are some who have been successful and say it was worth it. But I don't think everybody could do this.
2007-03-28 05:08:26 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, trust can always be rebuilt. what the problem is is that it takes a long time. if you want to stay friends with the person but have no trust in them any more then take the time to take them aside and talk to them. talk about what the BOTH of you can do to further your relationship as friends and what can be done to regain eachothers trust.
hope that helps.
TONY H
2007-03-28 05:13:56 · answer #8 · answered by kcdraggawolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think trust is one of the biggest things. I don't want to be with someone I can't trust. Once it's broken, it's VERY hard to rebuild, but anything worth doing can be done.
2007-03-28 05:12:38 · answer #9 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could never trust someone once they broke trust with me but I know it is possible to do so but it would time some serious time.
2007-03-28 05:06:30 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋