Im 18 and like im a christian and yeah im a virgin too because im trying to be a good christian but like to me i never really had a great gf and im really looking for one but I also never really had my frist kiss either. I think thats bad or dumb but idk what do yall think?
2007-03-28 05:02:17 · 19 answers · asked by Matt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay the first person who answerd this is so gay
2007-03-28 05:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first off. The first answerer is a twit who needs his butt beat. Too bad he ain't here...cuz I could handle that.
Sorry bout the above, but guys like that piss me off.
Now about the real question. Dude it sounds like u value the christian morals and u should find a chick who is on the same track. And u will find one...trust me.
And it sure ain't dumb or bad. U are probably a whole lot smarter than most...and u got self-control and good values...like waiting for something good. U are way ahead of most guys (especially the twit I dissed above).
I would say the best place to find a chick who holds the same values as u would be in a church-type setting. Go to their parties, meetings, picknicks or whatever functions they have. Talk to chicks u find interesting. It'll come dude.
Luck to ya and all. And u got my respect man.
2007-03-28 12:12:58 · answer #2 · answered by Travis M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not dumb or stupid. It's your choice and if you are happy with that then don't let anyone talk you into believing it is bad. From what you say, you might find a nice girl at church. You could also try Yahoo Personals. If you state what you're looking for, you could also find someone nice. I found my husband on there 5 years ago. I think there are also Christian personals sites. If you google it, you'll find them. Good luck and don't let anyone talk you out of your morals. A good girlfriend will respect them.
2007-03-28 12:42:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been kissed and have kissed before but i still havent had the REAL first kiss yet so your not alone, I am dating right know and am head over heels for this man!! The best way to be when you date is yourself and let her know that all you want to see is the REAL her, If you are honest, open, willing to listen, and treat her like royalty (all the TLC, not your wallet) then your on the road to a blessed journey!!
2007-03-28 12:10:02 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Wings 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think there's anything wrong with being a slow mover in that department. At least that's a respectable quality in a guy- that you're not a player.
As for getting a girlfriend- you can't just make someone you're girlfriend. It's best to get to know not just one girl, but a bunch of girls as friends and then take it from there. See what qualities you like best in a girl. Then if you're patient, I bet a relationship will just form.
2007-03-28 12:08:28 · answer #5 · answered by darkshadows9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is awesome , when i got married we were both virgins. We learned together and is was an awesome experience, I HAVE NEVER REGRETTED MY DECISION.
When the time is right you Will find someone who shares your belief and you will enjoy the moment when it arrives. No matter what others say or believe, if you feel good about it stand straight and don't allow any one tell you anything different.
I'M PROUD OF YOU!
2007-03-28 12:10:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! If you want to find a gf who feels the same way you do about relationships, my best advice is to go to events and activities that you like or take a class you are interested in, and would like to do with a girl (ex. join a local hiking club, take a cooking class, take dance lessons, etc.). It's great to have fun things to do that you both like!
2007-03-28 12:08:05 · answer #7 · answered by Summer hiker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem like a great catch, there are lots of girls out there
that would like to have a guy like you.Go to as many church functions hat your church has. If that doesn't work go
to a different church of same religion, to meet new people
2007-03-28 12:13:39 · answer #8 · answered by hairbob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first guy is a *** just be patient theres a girl out ther just dont get desperate and go for any one
2007-03-28 12:06:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not trying to find a nice girl in a church teen/youth group---i am sure you can find one with the same morals as you---you deserve to have someone special in your life who sees it the same way you do---good luck!
and our lord and savior will provide a wonderful woman for you in due time---i know this in my heart
2007-03-28 12:06:46 · answer #10 · answered by Bailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its great. It shows you have a lot of character for waiting for the right one.
2007-03-28 12:05:16 · answer #11 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋