My son is only 13 but wants to go out with a 30 year old woman! What should I do? Is it right?
2007-03-28 05:01:52 · 9 answers · asked by Jimmy M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did you seriously just ask "is it right?"
ITS ILLEGAL.
If he want to date that woman when he's 18, he should go right ahead...but for now he's your responsibility...and that is not a good thing to let him do.
2007-03-28 05:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by Haley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What if it was a 30 year old man wanting to go out with a 13 year old girl? Is the woman for real? If she is wanting to date a 13 year old boy then call the cops on her!
2007-03-28 12:13:07 · answer #2 · answered by gittit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your son is 13. Forbid him. If the 30 year old is pursuing the relationship call the cops and put out a restraining order. It is in no way right for this relationship. Once your son is over 18 he can do what he wants but right now it is your responsibility.
2007-03-28 12:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly think he shouldn't... women are usually a bit not smarter but know how to manipulate men easily.
it's easier to see a 15 old girl with a 30 old guy. First, it is more common, but that social stigmata anyway. Second, and more important i think , women get more mature thinking ways than men.
And OMG, he's a kid, I really think he's just got a crush on this girl. Then imagine this: he will want to pay for stuff, and... does he have to money to fulfill the needs of a 30 old? She might want him to stay over for nights... Are u OK with this?
I dunno, but really think about these things... and if you're trying to talk him out of it try to explain these situations to him in a very easygoing way that will not hurt him.
Besides, if this woman is actually looking fwd to be with him, that's is technically a crime, he's under the legal age anyway... and last but not least if you we her age, do you really think you would get involved with someone that young knowing all the limitations being young can represent? And don't you think it might be for her something just for fun and your son might really get involved?
No matter how you see this, it is not a balanced situation...
Hope this helps.
2007-03-28 12:14:17 · answer #4 · answered by monique_ds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not OK. You need to speak to this woman and tell her if she keeps coming around your son, you will get the police involved. It is illegal!!! You also need to talk to your son and explain why this situation is not right
2007-03-28 12:09:51 · answer #5 · answered by diane b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not right...Tell him to stick with girls his own age...WTH does a 30 year-old see in a 13 year old? Playing xbox all day and eating pizza?...what would they have in common....
2007-03-28 12:05:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? What country are you from? Have you heard of sexual abuse of a child? There is an age limit in most states. Why don't you go out with her. Where did he meet her? Do you have a police dept?
2007-03-28 12:16:20 · answer #7 · answered by 6gj8ab 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 13 you knock a little sense into their head and then ground them to their room. Hello Statutory rape works both ways!!!!!
2007-03-28 12:06:38 · answer #8 · answered by agbridal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh are you serious?ummm thats not right move far away from that place lol
2007-03-28 12:06:27 · answer #9 · answered by paris_stambaugh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋