My girlfriend and I broke up about 3 months ago. I still care for her eventhough she left me for someone else. She called me up the other day and we got to talking and she said that she really missed me. I asked her if she would like to go get some coffee or at least see me and she said that her relationship with the other guy is really not firm and she feels that if she sees me then she would want to come back to me. She says that she is far from over me but I dought this because she wants to see me. She says that she needs more time with this other guy to make their relationship work befor she sees me. To me that says that her present relationship is not what she wants. What should I do?
2007-03-28 04:40:01 · 12 answers · asked by Hunt-305 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just stay away for now. she made it pretty clear she wants to see how it works out with her new BF first.
2007-03-28 04:43:07 · answer #1 · answered by Kutekymmee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wants you on standby just in case this other person does not work out. After he's gone she will keep running to others until she's worn out and by then you might not want her anymore.
Don't let her treat you that way, she will always take you for granted if you let her. Show her that you are not holding your breath waiting for her. I bet if you start seeing someone else she will come running to you.
You are a human being, not a toy that she can play with!!
2007-03-28 04:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by anosey1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, why do you want to sit around like a stool pigeon and wait for her. Give yourself more credit than that, don't be a matter of convience. IF she had strong enough feelings she wouldn't be weighing out her options. Find someone more worthy of your time. Apparently she is not, this is not to be mean but stop putting yourself on the back burner because now is not the right time for her!
2007-03-28 04:45:58 · answer #3 · answered by pattiof 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about this girl! You may still care for her as a person, but the fact that she left you for another guy!? Do you have any self-esteem!? If you do, then know that you are worth having someone who wants YOU and would not stray at the sight of someone else. I don't know your exact situation, but I think she is dead wrong and you should move on! She's completely unstable
2007-03-28 04:48:11 · answer #4 · answered by ashleyd76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please dont do it!!! my friend is going through the similar thing but you cant because its most likely going to bring up a bunch of false hope for you.but maybe she just wants to clear the air with you so that she wont feel bad for dumping you for that other guy and she is feeling sooo guilty and it has put a strain on her current relationship well if you do BEST OF LUCK xoxoxoxo
2007-03-28 04:47:07 · answer #5 · answered by Whitney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude...............she left you fro someone else. her loss. move on and if the two of you can be friends then ok but don't go back to her unless you are prepared for this to possibly happen again. your too good for her ..........move on. look at it this way she is talking to you and still in a relationship........what does that tell you? she is doing the same thing but this time you are on the other side.
2007-03-28 04:46:59 · answer #6 · answered by chazzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on....she wants to give this guy more time to see if it works? She calls you, tells you she misses you. She is a player, ahhhhh let me just ride this guy out awhile I may like him better....but if not I can always go back to you?
Be done with her!
2007-03-28 05:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing for you to do. unless you want to become "the other man." i'd stay away from her. sounds like she's confused but at the end of the day, she chose him over you. if you keep in contact with her, you'll only get even more hurt. i know you really care about her but don't let her treat you this way. you deserve better.
2007-03-28 04:44:43 · answer #8 · answered by RedDevyl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol schedule dates! i'm completely extreme. like set up dates with each and each guy that asks you out and be certain later in case you enjoyed any of them. it's going to keep issues below administration, and not finished chaos
2017-01-05 08:25:50 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her,
if she wanted u she shouldn't leave u,she try to find someone else but cause he's not better than u , try to put u near that if she couldn't find someone then could come back to u.she try to put some way for herself .she is intelligent.
leave her.she taste everybody if theyrn't good again u.
don't go.
2007-03-28 04:50:22 · answer #10 · answered by parmis_232003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your number and forget about her. She is just keeping you on hold "just in case". What's to stop her from dumping you everytime someone else catches her eye? Run from that selfish witch because she only cares about herself.
2007-03-28 04:43:40 · answer #11 · answered by stony1111 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋