my question is because we have sex like once a week,is this normal?he is 30 aim 23 should i been worry about something else?we been together for 3 years and we are engaged
2007-03-28 04:38:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If this is not enough for you, then you need to find someone else in your life. It won't get better (as in more) after you are married, it will only decrease.
It's not normal, he should be hitting it with you often. I would think a dozen times a week would not be out of line. He is much older than you and in a different place in his life. This is not a good choice on your part if sex is important (and it should be). You are way too young to settle for someone who is not meeting your needs.
Move on, you can do better.
2007-03-28 04:44:33 · answer #1 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well suga if ur living together that could be the reason. I don't why but for some reason when me & my EX were just b/f & g/f not living together we use to do it anywhere...but all that changed once we moved in w/eachother. Is he working more? Maybe he's just tired.
U should switch up & try something different out of the norm I bet that'll wake his azz up!!lmao But that could go both ways he could either like it or think ur gettin it from somewhere else?? Who knows men r so weird!! lol
2007-03-28 12:46:13 · answer #2 · answered by Lovely Cappy Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's normal. But what really matters is whether you're happy with him or not. If u truly love the guy, don't let frequency of sex come between u.
There are things u can do to get him aroused. Just keep experimenting till u find what stimulates him.
Man, I couldn't possibly go for a week tho. Hell, it's torture goin for a day. But I'm younger than he is tho.
2007-03-28 11:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by Travis M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for him it may be normal but for you it is not. he needs to give you what you want and need. do things to him to make him want it. 30, he is still young, a little dumb right now i would say, he has a young 23 girlfriend and he doesnt want to have sex as often, he is crazy. but that doesnt mean anything else, maybe he is stressing or going through a 30 years old man crisis.
2007-03-28 11:47:48 · answer #4 · answered by soto_a81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think that when men have settled in to a relationship that sex is no longer their top priority. They have already conquered the battle and no longer need to dock their ship. Tell him his lack of interest in sex bothers you. I do think that only once a week is just not enough........
2007-03-28 11:44:37 · answer #5 · answered by sunset 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just depends on your sex drive. If that is all he wants, that is normal. If you want more, though-- it could cause a problem in your relationship. I would talk about this and think about this before you get married.
2007-03-28 11:42:54 · answer #6 · answered by Audrey C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to have sex more often then let him know, I don't know many guys who would have a problem with that. He might be harboring some kind of fear or problem so a dose of support and understanding might be in order.
2007-03-28 11:43:31 · answer #7 · answered by mr_jack_fr0st 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not normal but he might just be stressed out. Most men will have sex as much as possible ..so maybe u need to change things up to make him interested again
2007-03-28 11:43:08 · answer #8 · answered by *VS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have different libido's, that's normal yes. Sounds like my ex-husband, he only ever wanted sex like once every 6 months or something.
2007-03-28 11:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal is what ever you want.Have you talked to him about this? do you try to initiate or wait for him? you might want to start taking on the role of the agreeser if you want sex more often.Good luck
2007-03-28 11:43:00 · answer #10 · answered by wblueyesinvt35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋