ok so me an my boyfrind have been together for 6 months. an well its wriod because when we have sex its only like 40 seconds long. but when he gets really high it last a long time we even do it more then once. what does this mean i dont get it. when hes not real high he doesnt last long an it sucks 4 me but when hes high some times it last 4 a long time....idk...
2007-03-28 04:35:03 · 34 answers · asked by AUBRIE L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wonder why to because that happens with me and my husband too dont get me wrong he is not a junky but he smokes a little weed from time to time...it is better than cigarettes , it don't last 40 seconds but it last five minutes and that's it not even a round two or three..............I think they become more energetic when they get high and their hormones go more up
2007-03-28 04:39:44 · answer #1 · answered by sexsired 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u can tolerate the weed (and some places it's illegal...not in BC tho). But if u can go along with him bein a weed smoker a lot of the time, then I guess u should give him some before sex.
My gut opinion would naturally be...find another boyfriend who isn't on drugs. But to each his own.
2007-03-28 04:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by Travis M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting high is a antidepressant, regardless of what anyone else will say. Not saying that sex with you makes him depressed far from it in fact, sex with you is sooo relieving that it feels good and he is happy and content by just the sex act. The getting high allows him to already be content before the real content act of sex then he can enjoy and last longer..
2007-03-28 04:40:58 · answer #3 · answered by Franchesca 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When your boyfriend is high, he doesn't have complete feeling "down there" so he can last longer, but when he's not the sensations are too great that he doesn't last as long. You might want to try TROJAN® Extended Pleasure™ Condoms with Climax Control Lubricant.
2007-03-28 04:47:11 · answer #4 · answered by Lys 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Define "High" for me? Do you mean as intoxicated "high" because if that's the case...what are you doing with a man that gets high and can only perform well while "high"???
Is not even about sex...I mean you do not need a negative influence in your life....you will end up taking his same path....get someone who will be positive about life and with goals...you Deserve it!.
2007-03-28 05:22:11 · answer #5 · answered by peach_tree67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new guy, he is a loser.
He doesn't care about your needs for sex, just himself. That is why he doesn't last when not high. When he is high, he isn't thinking about you and what he is really doing so it lasts longer.
Why do you want a guy who gets high? Do you really think that little of your self. He is selfish and self-centered, you can do much better.
2007-03-28 04:40:11 · answer #6 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he may have a medical problem because no guy should "reach their peek" that soon so he may need to see a doctor and even though getting high isn't good for him ( you should be a good girlfriend and stop him from slowing killing himself by the way) he may just be calm when he's high but when he's not he's super excited so it happens faster way faster maybe he should learn to calm his nerves wothout getting high
2007-03-28 04:41:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you shouldn't be dating a drug addict. Yu'll have a horrible life if you stick with a guy who gets high all the time. Don't you deserve better?
2007-03-28 04:38:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should find someone new unfortunately because he is doing unhealthy things and i think he should go to see a doctor to see if his body is working right cuz if sex is only lasting a little while then there has to be sumthing wrong
2007-03-28 04:44:02 · answer #9 · answered by dirky15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Mikey in that you need a boyfriend that does not do drugs. Drugs and alcohol affect your sexual performance. It generally takes longer for things to happen or to not happen at all when you are under the influence.
2007-03-28 04:40:40 · answer #10 · answered by Lost in Maryland 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋