My girlfriend saw my scar from being shot. She didn't mention it or voice her observation of it. Do u think she thought it was horrible by being silence. Should I bring it up to her or just see how she is reacting to me from now on? Do u think she will tell me how she really feel about it and me? She been acting normal since she saw it. But I don't know. help me out
2007-03-28 04:34:22 · 4 answers · asked by aries19768 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Would be a good idea for you to bring it up and talk about it as she has seen it, but may be unsure as to how to bring it up and talk about in a conversation.
2007-03-28 04:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like it bothers you a lot more than it bothers her. if she's been acting normally, i wouldn't worry about it. but if you really want to know just ask her what she thinks about it. as long as you explain the circumstances around the injury, it shouldn't be a problem. it sounds like you may be worried about her judging you in some way. i'd just talk to her & ask her. that's all you can do.
also sounds like you guys don't communicate that well.. if she's your gf, you should be comfortable enough around her to just ask her what she's thinking. no point in being together if you can't communicate.
2007-03-28 11:39:35 · answer #2 · answered by RedDevyl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that she is probably worried that she is dating a gangsta. who knows. you got to tell her about the scar again and tell her how it happened and stuff. be honest about it, then she will understand that its ok.
2007-03-28 11:42:07 · answer #3 · answered by christi t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are that concerned about it...ask her about it. Stop trying to figure this out.
2007-03-28 11:39:37 · answer #4 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋