A guy friend that I have worked with on and off for the past 5 years has started hanging out with me more. We never used to hang out except after work with a bunch of people. Now he's started calling me out of the blue and asked me to the movies, musicals etc. Since December we've been out 7 or 8 times. We went out on Friday and Saturday, and on Saturday our friends were teasing us saying "we're dating".... not much of a response from him. He hasn't made his intentions clear, hasn't made any moves. Each time we go out, he picks me up takes me out and drives me home. We did go dancing with friends on the weekend and we ended up spending the night dancing by ourselves. My friend think he's interested, and that I should ask about his intentions. But I'm nervous about asking. Any advice?
2007-03-28 04:25:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm gonna hit you both up side the head with a 2 x 4. Somebody find the switch these kids can't seem to get the light on. Maybe I can shed some light on the posibilities with the information given as I understand it. * HANGING OUT after work for five years. *GOING OUT to movies *GOING OUT to musicals *GOING OUT dancing *DANCING all night *GOING OUT Friday and Saturday. He is interested, definitely interested, but DON"T ask him. You will scare the stuffins out of him. He is already petrified in the glow of your charm. Be charming and enjoy your "DATING" experience. Everything else will follow in due course.
2007-03-28 04:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by Kenny Ray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, how does he act when you're out together?
Has he kissed u yet?
From your description it's hard to tell if he's interested in a romantic way or just a "good friend" who likes your company way. I'm inclined to think it might be more than a good friend since you've been alone together a lot, but not sure on that. If he's kissed u, it's more than a good friend deal.
Could be he's shy about making the move tho. U might want to prod him a little (maybe even physically...I mean like touch him on the face or whatever (caresses or whatever they call it), not anything bold). See how he reacts.
Set him up to kiss u. U oughta know how to do this. My gf did it all the time. If he goes for it, then u know.
Good luck to ya.
2007-03-28 04:35:01 · answer #2 · answered by Travis M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he does enjoy spending time with you from what you wrote. If he's not making his feelings known then you can do one of two things. You can decide to let things run there course and hope he eventually lets you in on his intentions or you can just flat out ask. Asking makes you nervous because your opening yourself up to rejection and that's understandable. I think in this case knowing would be better than not knowing. You don't want to let yourself get all into this guy only to find out he is only looking at you as a friend. Your time is important and who you choose to spend it with is also.
2007-03-28 04:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by love2breal2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of she does such as you. some women are shy, defiantly with first relationships. i might probably do the comparable element. purely tell her which you're feeling that way. i'm specific she'll experience the comparable way. or perhaps hint her in a sprint extra via like hugging her or taking her out to the action pictures and stuff like that. i think of she may be chuffed and get used to the belief. And BTW in case you tell her which you omit her and she or he would not inform you she misses you lower back its the two she purely would not recognize what she ought to assert or that she isn't via her telephone or something. i may be to irritating. i think of that ought that might assist you plenty
2016-12-15 10:40:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as old fashioned as it sounds a good indicator really is if he pays! usually if he pays most of the time, it's dates! i would bring it up casually in some way and see if you can get a response out of him! start it out as a joke "like wow everyone keeps saying we're dating so much that i'm starting to wonder myself" and see what he says
2007-03-28 04:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you need to know where the relationship is going and see what his response is. But i would guess that if he is picking u up and taking u out then he is either definately interested or bored
2007-03-28 04:30:38 · answer #6 · answered by pinkbabiesr07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that this is a very, very bold move. And i think that you can do it. On on of your so called "dates" at the end, i think that you should kiss him. cos, honey, he is very into you. he's a guy, and most of the time guys are nervous about these kinds of things. they try to hide it cos they are all macho and stuff. so, make the next step. just kiss him. and then see what he does.
2007-03-28 04:33:48 · answer #7 · answered by christi t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is interested. I would just talk to him about it. If you are nervous go out with him a few more times first and maybe you will feel more comfortable or better yet maybe he will just tell you!
2007-03-28 04:30:02 · answer #8 · answered by ♥..It's Me..♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, there is no asking needed, you are dating, he sounds real sweet, maybe a little shy, its time for you to take this relationship by the horns and tell him you are not interested in anyone else.
2007-03-28 04:36:25 · answer #9 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is definitely interested but sounds like he is taking it slow and cautious, and that's okay. But you should be open with him and find out if you two are exclusively just seeing each other, so no one gets hurt later. It sounds like you are both having fun, don't complicate things just let them happen and remember to keep communication open.
2007-03-28 04:31:21 · answer #10 · answered by Tabatha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋