I keep pushing borders in bedroom and things I considered weird and unacceptable some time ago are natural for me now. I'm a little scared when I think what my s.x life in 10 or 20 years will be like. Anybody has this problem? Any suggestions how to deal with it?
2007-03-28 04:23:39 · 29 answers · asked by Miss Piggy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a great Q. I have sorta wondered the same thing myself, and I realize that that is the inherent danger of fulfilling fantasies. Once we've done it, it ceases to be a fantasy and becomes a reality. I haven't really come up with a reason why fantasies are important to have, but I certainly think they are. But I am finding out they have to stay fantasies. So, my thought on the matter is take these things REALLY slowly. I have found it's important to move forward, but it's about the journey, not the destination. It's more important to feel like I am moving forward, even if I'm just creeping along than to jump to every next step. Find a niche, enjoy it, or else you risk learning to enjoy the adrenaline of the unknown and that's a slippery slope.
2007-03-28 04:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't consider this a problem. As you get older, you start to experiment more and go beyond the norm. As long as you're safe and in a commited relationship, there shouldn't be a problem. I think once you settle down, i.e. get married or choose to be in a common law marriage, the experimentation fades. Then when you have children, sex itself fades and the experimentation is almost none existent, what will matter then is the quality of sex, not so much the quantity. Enjoy your youth!
2007-03-28 11:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by lovin' life... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy it while it lasts. Who knows what things will be like in 10 or 20 years' time? You might be happy to settle for something less adventurous by then. If you've got a willing partner now, make the most of things
2007-03-28 17:03:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are enjoying yourself and nor hurting anyone (at least anyone that doesnt want to be hurt), dont worry about it. Enjoy it...it is great that you are willing to explore your boundaries, it will make it likely that you will continue enjoying the sex for a lifetime. Most people enjoyin git today probably wont even enjoy it in 10-20 years. Loved the question Miss Piggy :)
2007-03-28 11:29:15 · answer #4 · answered by brazilian76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a problem. You are growing more into your sexuality. I know I do things with my boyfriend I said I never would because of how unusual or gross they were. I am having fun discovering my sexuality and have to say the sex gets better every time because of it. When we first started having sex, it wasn't that great, but now it so amazing. I don't know what I am going to do when we break up.
2007-03-28 13:07:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy pushing the borders in bed. You'll have a great sex life forever if you do.
2007-03-28 11:28:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In 20 years you won't have the hormones that you have right now, so you won't be as driven by sex or sexuality.
Just have fun with it. If you like it and it's not hurting anyone (who doesn't want to be hurt), you have nothing to worry about.
2007-03-28 11:28:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
true you can push the borders but as you get older it can get boring, but there is hope for you yet. if you find the right person there can always be fire. i have known my wife for 27 years and married for 20 years and she still gets me just as hot.
2007-03-28 11:31:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Explore yourself. Nothing wrong with trying new things. Of course be careful, but sometimes something may work just right for you. You never know until you try.
2007-03-28 13:07:56 · answer #9 · answered by big_mustache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, my way of thinking is you dont know if you like it unless you try it......its not a problem that you need to deal with. Just enjoy it.
2007-03-28 11:39:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋