i called my ex to see if he was still alive! and then we started talking and now he wants to know if i would consider going back out with him the sad part is that we were together i dont even remeber y we broke up but every time we talked before we always talked about fetting back together is this another one of those times? should i get back with him he is a nice guy or should let it go and meet some one new?
2007-03-28 04:22:47 · 27 answers · asked by smiley_meliy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i just remeberd y we broke up we were going to different highschools and we didnt want to cheat on each other. we both agreed
2007-03-28 04:32:01 · update #1
Its seems like you want to get back with him, and i see no reason why you shouldn't, you obviously still have feelings for him or you wouldn't be considering it,right?? And he obviously has feelings for you or he wouldn't keep bringing it up. I say go for it whats the worst that could happen that it doesn't work out! and if it doesn't work out this time then you know he just isn't right for you. Better than always wondering!! Know that saying the only true regrets are the things you didn't do rather than the things you did. So i say go for it and goodluck!!
2007-03-28 04:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by Natalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know how your situation is with him, better yet, you don't even seem to know either.
People have always told me that getting back with your ex's are the worst decisions. On my own personal experience, getting back with my ex I was with 3 1/2 years was the worst decision I ever made, he CHANGED big time while we weren't together for like 5 or 6 months.
Then again, people are different! We started off ok, but our past stirred up the lack of trusting one another...
However, if you both are willing to start new, then I say go for it! Try to ignore the past, otherwise the past will initiate all your new fights. You will gain nothing in that. Relax and talk it out with him =)
2007-03-28 04:31:38 · answer #2 · answered by micolperu317 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sort of dealing with a similar situation. You just have to really consider the fact that you broke up for a REASON. It didn't work out.. if it was strictly situational (maybe someone moved, or the timing just wasn't right) then I would say give him another chance and see how it goes. But if he wasn't treating you right, or you fought a lot, all you're going to be doing is re-opening a wound that you've probably already begun to heal
2007-03-28 04:27:13 · answer #3 · answered by ashleyd76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that s a question only u have the answer to. my suggestion to u is to think about ur relationship in the past, and reflect whether u had a really good time with him, or if most of the time u gut hurt. if u were most of the time arguing and all that, then i suggest u to move on, if u guys were alright, and u been thinking about him lately, then my suggestion to u is to start dating, nothing serious, just go with the flow. see if u guys are going to be alright in a relationship again, or if u guys are better off as friends. and later on, while dating, if a stronger feeling starts to evolve, then i guess u just found u will have find the answer for that question.
2007-03-28 04:31:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him... get a good yummy free dinner and just see if during that time you remember what was so wrong! Start out as friends before you get back.. There has to be a reason you two broke up.
2007-03-28 04:27:11 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you do not remember what you broke up about then it must not have been anything important like if he cheated on you.......everyone would remember that. Start off slow and get to know him all over again and try not get into the same patteren as before. go for it. never know after getting to know him more he may have changed or y ou may have changed in time. good luck.
2007-03-28 04:30:03 · answer #6 · answered by chazzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, go ahead and give it another chance. Of course, then you might remember why you broke up in the first place, but then you'll know for sure. OR maybe something nice will happen.
Good luck.
2007-03-28 04:25:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should go out with him again. If he really wanted u he would've made the effort to contact u first and get u back. It sounds like he can't find anyone else so he's trying to come back to u.
2007-03-28 04:26:48 · answer #8 · answered by *VS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get back with him. If you can't remember what he did to make you break up with him, it couldn't have been that bad. So give him another try. I'm sure he's a nice guy. Eh, what have you got to lose?
2007-03-28 04:26:14 · answer #9 · answered by baby_wrestler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont even know why you broke up and it wasnt an abusive relationship and he is a good guy and is grounded give him another chance but make it his last. if you guys keep breaking up then obviously it wasnt meant to be. ask him if he is ready to make the long term commitment!!
2007-03-28 04:27:37 · answer #10 · answered by Megan M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋