I moved into my landlords house about two months ago. I share with him and another guy who is barely there. There was an instant attraction between me and the landlord. I should have seen this as a warning sign and not accepted the room but me being a redblooded 22 year old girl, I was keen to persue.Anyway, so I moved in and I ended up getting on brilliantly with my landlord. We would talk everynight till about midnight and the attraction was obvious. By the first weekend of me living there we ended up in bed. But after waking up in my room, the next morning, things were awkward and we didnt mention what happened again. I was kind of upset but I knew it was mostly me that was avoiding the subject. It seemed clear that he wanted more from it than I did. But lately I have developed feelings for him but couldnt bring my self to say anything. Then to my horror he brought home a new girlfriend and its too late. What should I do? My heart is breaking and its awful to hear them at it.
2007-03-28 04:19:59 · 10 answers · asked by Tommigirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Must be difficult to try and sort out your feelings while you are both under the same roof. I wonder if you lived in a different place, if you would still have these same feelings. The only way to know for sure is to move, as your instincts before you moved in seemed to have been telling you. Then with distance and time, you will know whether those feelings are real, or if they were based on the convenience of having him in the same space. Until you figure it out for sure, the less said to him on the matter, the better.
2007-03-28 04:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of two things: Tell him how you feel or move out. I wouldn't want to live in the same house with someone I had feelings for and was intimate with while they saw someone else....it would be too much torture.
2007-03-28 11:24:36 · answer #2 · answered by belen2499 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was one of the pit falls that you should have considered before having sex with him. But, it still might not be to late. He may be trying to just make you jelous. He may want you too but he may not know how to tell you. I think that yall should talk about it.
2007-03-28 11:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long ago did you guys hook up? If it was weeks ago it may be to late. If it is relatively recently you should make your attraction known to him again. He may have brought home this new girl to make you jealous and he may be willing to drop her if you show interest again.
2007-03-28 11:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by Reeve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just as you sensed the attraction so did he, and he also sensed that you were no longer interested either. So he moved on. IF it bothers you talk to him and if that makes nothing go on I know it hurts go on, if you have to save money and move.
2007-03-28 11:25:45 · answer #5 · answered by Franchesca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move out of that house. He does not love you.
2007-03-28 11:25:19 · answer #6 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you waited to long and took his feelings for granted! next time you won't wait so long,huh?
move on and find another man,he is now taken! good luck sweetheart! you are in my prayers! god bless!
2007-03-28 11:26:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the way you feel...and soon...or find another place to live.
2007-03-28 11:25:35 · answer #8 · answered by auditor4u2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prostitute yourself out again for free rent.
2007-03-28 11:23:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it
2007-03-28 11:24:17 · answer #10 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋