My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 7 months. We're both law students, and I'm really happy in our relationship. The only thing is - I find myself wanting to be intimate with him a lot more than he seems to want to. We usually have sex 4 or 5 times a week, but I'm always wanting more. Last night, for instance, we were studying at the library until midnight. When we came back, he just wanted to go to sleep, but I didn't. I feel like I'm initiating things a lot...the difference, I guess, is when I initiate, he's not always into it, and I have to convince him. However, when he initiates, I'd better get in the mood because he's on a rampage. What can I do to get him to increase the frequency? How can I get him in the mood more often?
2007-03-28 04:11:41 · 3 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello... you're law students!!! I'm a few weeks away from finishing 1L, and a passionate week for me these days is when I have sex twice. Last semester, when I was first starting out, I don't think I had sex at all during the month of September!
Not really knowing anything else about you, I can't speak on whether your sex drive has anything to do with unresolved "issues" on your part. However, there doesn't seem to be a problem on your boyfriend's end. You should know that 5 times a week is already on the high side... especially for law students with tons of work to do. If you really need sex more than than 5 times a week, you really shouldn't be a relationship... you need two or three friends-with-benefits so they can "share the burden"! (ahem, I have no classes on Thursdays)
Regardless, I don't think you're being realistic by expecting your man to go at it more often than he already is... and you will probably freak him out by putting a lot of pressure on him. Go easy on the guy... a woman can fake arousal, but a man can't fake an erection.
2007-03-28 04:53:12 · answer #1 · answered by Steve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you think he isn't in the mood start to whisper sexy things in his ear that you will do for him. See if that helps.
2007-03-28 12:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may need to talk to your doctor about it.
2007-03-28 11:17:36 · answer #3 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋