self issues?

Question

I have a major self issue problem.I was curious to know if men that have a wife/girlfreind and they gain a little extra weight from pregnancy does his view of her change.Does he still find her attractive,sexy,and beautiful.What if she had a cesarian birth and her stomach really isnt what it used to be,she may have some extra weight on top of the extra loose skin cause doctors dont know how to stretch the skin back and then sew it up.I was just curious as to what peoples thoughts were.

Answer 1

When my bride gained weight with pregnancy, I didn't think anything about it,, just loved the whole dam experience. Later she lost the weight and had as good a body as ever, with a few stretch marks ,, but still looked great to me. To tell the truth,, she has maintained her appearance much better than I have,,,
I expect some guys want their wives to look like a fashion model even while they have a beer gut and don't shave on weekends.

Answer 2

Just my personal thoughts. Of course, his thoughts will change. So would the women. But if the change is that the person no longer wants to be with her because of such a change, he didn't have any genuine feelings in the first place. If the relationship is based totally on appearances, at some point both will move on. Because you are changing constantly. I've changed in size from under to overweight. The decent men in my life, continued to love me no matter what my weight was. Unfortunately, I've had some personall issues that kept me hopping around based on another's appearance. *sigh. I can't tell you if they would have left based on my weight change because I didn't hang around long enough to find out. Never found any lasting happiness with the people attracted to me based on my appearance. Surprise surprise! But the guys who liked me for me...well there still here. And I have to work on my issues to know that I deserve someone who loves me for the essence of who I am.

Answer 3

if he truly loved you he wouldn't care, you just had a baby it's natural to have a few extra pounds and some loose skin, though I'm sure you'll lose the weight rather quickly as you chase around your little bundle of joy. and congradulations on the baby

Answer 4

I think that we have more issues with our weight than our husbands/boyfriends do. they don't see our bodies as disgusting as we do. But of course there are some men that are obsessed with the weight issue, these are usually men that someone with a hot body wouldn't give a second look to!
if your man truly loves you then he will also notice that his body isn't perfect either and that he love you no matter what!