the thought of that makes me not want to
2007-03-28 03:39:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some women do not bleed at all. Everyone is different. You shouldn't let it worry you too much. Here is an excerpt from an online health forum.
Dr. Kelly Shanahan, MD -
Not all women bleed the first time they have sex. The hymen is a membrane at the vaginal opening; it has perforations in it so menstrual blood can escape. Sometimes, there is a large central opening. During first intercourse, the hymen may be stretched, rather than torn -- in such a case, there will be no bleeding. Sometimes if the hymen is stretched the first time one has sex, it may tear and bleed later, during more vigorous intercourse.
Sometimes a virgin will have a torn hymen. The hymen can be torn before first sex by tampon use, gynecological exams, a straddle injury (falling on the crossbar of a bike, for example), or other events. If the hymen is already torn, she will not bleed when she has sex for the first time.
2007-03-28 03:51:40 · answer #1 · answered by ☼♫Hmm..Interesting♪☼ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Everyone is different - depends on the position and thickness of the hymen. I did not bleed at all - some very athletic women do not. By the way, I agree with above that says it is the best thing you can keep, because you can't ever get it back and its the greatest gift you can give your husband... no matter what some boy tries to say. If a boy gives you pressure, then he's no man for the future.
2007-03-28 10:45:11 · answer #2 · answered by Tammy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't even know you bleed. Now the thought of that makes me not want to either.
2007-03-28 10:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by CUTIE 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the best advice would be to tell you to keep your virginity till your married, then you and your husband can enjy that sensational night together has man and wife...u would have nuffin to worry about...it's the best thing to keep...sex is addictive once you start you wouldn't want to stop so save it...n being a virgins gains women alot of respect.
2007-03-28 10:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by Bilqis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody is different ...When your truly in love and no your being with that special someone sharing something special....Your body can react and open up to his touches...If its someone just trying to get a fix dip then it can be painful...
2007-03-28 10:46:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it varies from person to person. It's kinda like having a small period. But you need to be more careful about the person you lose it to. Make sure he's worth it, make sure your in love.
2007-03-28 10:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends. and it's actualy not that big a deal
but for future refrence, this belongs under 'Womens Health'
2007-03-28 10:51:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is different, i didn't bleed at all but it sure was painful
2007-03-28 10:51:28 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not too much just a little..but dont just loose your viginity with anyone..the guy should be special..if you can wait then do...if you are like twleve years old..wait
2007-03-28 10:45:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk, i think some ppl think that you bleed from inside, but really its that little piece of skin that tears and that bleeds, i didnt bleed at all, and it didnt hurt for me, but everyones different
2007-03-28 15:23:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋