my parents are over protective and this guy likes me but my dad is a physco and i don't know what to do because i like this guy a lot and i mean a lot too help need good advice?
2007-03-28 03:36:51 · 21 answers · asked by Kali S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would explain to the boy the situation at home and hope he would understand and then turn to your parents and explain how you feel about the non-dating rule...There is always a reason why your parents have rules like this...I wouldn't advice you to go against them but at the say time I think you need to be able to express your feelings to them...Good Luck
2007-03-28 03:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?? Don't blame your parents they are only trying to protect you. Your dad was once a teenager and he know how boys are. My parents were the same way and I was angry at them because they would let me date this guy I liked, but trust me you may think you know but your parents know a lot better than you. When you have children you will see where they are coming from. They only want the best for you.
2007-03-28 10:43:06 · answer #2 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I guess you are not old enough, otherwise you wouldn't be posting this question.
At this age I guess it's natural to think of your dad as "physco" and "this guy" as the best in the world. I'm not saying that's not possible, but be very careful before making a judgment like this and taking a decision based on this judgment. Remember, your emotion and hormone are playing a big role here... .
2007-03-28 10:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by cowboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate to your pain of over protectiveness to some degree, so I know kind of what you're going through.
First, is your mom easier to talk to about things than your dad? If so, try talking to her first. It might be a real tough thing to do, but it can't hurt to try, right?
If both your parents are roughly the same, then sit down with both of them - again, that might be a battle in itself, and tell him all about this guy. Tell him all the good things about him - but don't lie or make anything up just to score points.
Talk to the guy, and see how he feels to come for dinner, or just go over to meet your parents. What is his parents and your parents met? I know that might sound kind of dumb, but maybe if they see that his family is decent, they'll ease up.
Of course, if they ease up on you and let you go out with him, chances are they're going to have some strict rules, which you should respect and follow, especially if they set a curfew.
But really, the best thing to do is talk to them. Sometimes talking can be the best thing. Just try and keep your cool around them and maybe things will be fine.
Best of luck to you :).
2007-03-28 10:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by crazygirl19_01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, your dad maybe a physo but first how old are you? Maybe he just doing it to protect you from boys who he thinks they are only after one thing. I think you need to talk to him about it first as nothing worse than hiding things from parents and unhappy home will lead to you feeling stressed out. If that doesnt work then I know you really like this boy but try and keep it on the low. Don't make it bait, but think is it really worth it if your dad did finds out? I'd say go for it but be so carefull, and if he asks say he your term partner for your project. U'll think of sumin..good luck
2007-03-28 10:44:23 · answer #5 · answered by Cherryl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bring this boy to your house until your parents get to know him...let them see you and him together...invite him for dinner...a walk...to watch a movie with your parents...they LOVE you and that is why they are who they are...you may hate it but when you are a mother you will understand...Put yourself in their place for 5 minutes!!!!! AND if he does come around you and be with you and your parents with OUT complaining then he is a good catch for if he really cares about you he will do ANYTHING to be with you...even be around your parents...also take some time to be alone....you two take a walk after being at your house and talking to your parents for a time...give them an hour with you and him when you can and let them be comfortable...you don't have to spend hours with your parents but atleast an hour and at times a movies here and there so a few hours.....they may surprise you and turn out to like him and then your life will be better..you WANT your parents to like your guy...it make s life so much easier...and parents want what is best for you!
2007-03-28 10:45:29 · answer #6 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Are you financially indepemndent , or do you need money from your psycho father? Are you sane, or just think that you are sane? Listen to your "overprotective" parents, and you will be safe. Do not worry, there are about 3 billion very nice men out there and you will get your share of them.
LISTEN to your parents, and you will not regret it
2007-03-28 11:34:06 · answer #7 · answered by sultan395 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are not too many ways you can go without out right defying your parents. why don't you talk to your dad and express exactly how you feel if you two cannot talk about it then there will no no win win situation. let your dad meet this guy if you two are really serious about your feelings for one another
2007-03-28 10:43:09 · answer #8 · answered by Snickerlicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date the guy and tell him not to come by you when you are with your parents. Plus don't tell your parents and don't let them find out. :P Or you can tell your parents how you feel. Maby that will work. My parents just butt out of my life. Well sometimes. When it comes to grades they get mad if I don't get all A's. But I am happy when they leave me alone to do my stuff.
2007-03-28 10:46:04 · answer #9 · answered by girlwhoseeksgod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and talk to your parents and tell them how you feel. If you snick out and get a boyfriend, one thing leads to another and then your going to be asking how you break it to your parents that you are pregnant. It happened to some friends of mine. And it also depends on your age.
2007-03-28 10:42:51 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋